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second_phoenix Away

32 / M / Straight / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hindi (Okay), C++ (Fluently), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hi, I'm Vinay. I'm a computer scientist, entrepreneur, runner, pool player, board game enthusiast, whiskey aficionado, and unapologetic geek. More details, you say? That's what messages and first dates are for!
What I’m doing with my life
I founded a tech startup as well as a non-profit organization. Working for myself is both exciting and nerve-wracking but I've not once regretted taking the plunge. Work aside, I run, play in a pool league, tinker with electronics, and do all the obligatory New Yorker things like exploring bars and restaurants with friends.
I’m really good at
Coming up with bad puns and wise-ass responses to questions like the ones here.
The first things people usually notice about me
Notice? I'm a member of an elite ninja clan, lurking in the shadows, moving unseen. Anything you think you see is simply your mind playing tricks on you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Terry Pratchett's Discworld series, the Song of Ice and Fire series (Game of Thones etc.), 1984, Yes Minister, Freakonomics, I could go on all day, I'm an avid reader.

Movies: Office Space, The Godfather, Ocean's Eleven, Pulp Fiction, Up, Wall-E, Hurt Locker

Shows: The Wire, Mythbusters, Dexter, House, The Office, Futurama, Firefly, Arrested Development.

Music: I'll listen to anything from rock to classical depending on the mood. I admit I don't actively seek out new music as much as I ought to so I'd love to hear your suggestions!

Food: I love trying out new food and will happily find something on practically any menu. That said, top favorites are Ethiopian, sushi, pad thai, Indian. It's hard to beat the occasional delicious juicy steak. I've also been cooking a lot more recently. I'll gladly make you dinner someday if you bring the dessert or help with the dishes!
The six things I could never do without
The first six elements of the periodic table.

Wait... can I swap out helium for oxygen? Hmm... don't really need lithium or boron, but iron is kinda important. Maybe I can also swap one of those out for calcium? I like having bones. Oh and you need nitrogen to form amino acids, DNA, protein and what not. Those are all good to have too. Beryllium? Don't need that. Hmm.

This is complicated. Let me get back to you.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A witty and funny message to send you!
On a typical Friday night I am
A member of the species Homo sapiens. Come to think of it, that's also been true on the more atypical Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was OkCupid's CTO until I left in 2010 to start my own company (unrelated to online dating). Although my job there didn't imbue me with any insider tricks or other online dating superpowers, I did end up with a bunch of weird and amusing stories.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
The shadow of the solitary oak tree in the yard is precisely twelve paces due east of the big "message" button at the top of this page, and the wind is blowing from the direction of the "send" button.

Update: I'm currently sorta busy with way too many things going on right now, so I'm on a sort of hiatus. As an experiment, I'm going to refrain from sending any new messages out, but will respond to every incoming message. This should be interesting.