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41 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 22
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Cutting to the chase, me in 10.

1) My nationality is British and I grew up there, so I actually like the foggy San Francisco summers ;-)

2) I like adventure..I recently took a one and a half year sabbatical and sailed my 38ft sailboat from San Francisco to Sydney, Australia via the south pacific islands (Marquesas, Tuamotus Atolls, Societies, Cooks, Tonga, Fiji, Vanuatu etc). Join me for the next one?

3) I do a mean Monkey Pose..

4) I was born in Kenya and I am sure I know someone related to Pres Obama if I try hard enough.

5) I like travelling..Born with a rucksack on my back and have more than fifty stamps in my passport. My bags are always packed.

6) Love the ocean, outdoors and enjoy keeping fit, eating healthy. So if you are looking for a partner in crime to sail, hike, run, bike, dive, ski, camp.... I am your very tired man ;-)

7) I like movies based on true events.. like Independence Day, not ;-)

8) I have lived in 6 countries so far and counting. Kenya, England, Netherlands, Denmark, Spain, USA.. and I am probably not done yet...

9) I enjoy following current events and reading non-fiction and have some sort of opinion on nearly everything.. so I am sure will have something to talk about ;-)

10) Ok maybe 9 is enough.

I have been in love a time or two and even engaged once, looking for that special someone.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Sailing or racing my sailboat in the bay, hiking, camping, biking, snoozing, yogaing, gyming etc

.... and when I am not doing all that I do Product Management for a tech company downtown.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I guess I am trying to be good at designing my life so that I can pursue dreams like travelling or sailing around the world while still having a career and a financially secure retirement. Not easily done!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I am full of contradictions!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love documentaries and movies based on true life stories.. Also the Daily show, NPR, Black Adder, Downtown Abbey, House of Cards and standup like Bill Hicks, Aziz Ansari, Chris Rock etc.

Music: Jose Gonzalez, Passenger, Poolside, deadmau5, Griz, Imagine Dragons, The Naked and the Famous, Phillip Phillips, The xx, Chicane, Groove Armada, Radiohead, Morcheeba, The Verve, Everlast, Avicii, etc.

Reads: Mainly non-fiction books like The Endurance by Shackelton, Outliers, the Prize, eat pray love, North to the Night, Steve Jobs autobiography, Maggie Thatchers autobiography, lots of sailing narratives.. the Alchemist.
The Economist, Huffington Post etc.

Fav Foods: Mexican, Indian, Italian and super fresh fish I caught and filleted a few mins ago!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Apart from the obvious things like friends, family etc. I would say.. blue skies, my iphone, a sailboat, hiking boots, ocean and wind!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
taking full advantage of the wonderful gift I have been given: This life..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably bar hopping, checking out yet another new restaurant or having a quiet night in to get an early start for some adventure the next day.

.... now saturday night is a completely different story, only way to find out is to come with me!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Mmm.. that I don't own a TV ;-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If one of my 10 "features" sparked an interest and you are open to one day doing something crazy like sailing around the world on a sailboat, drop me a note.