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40 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:12pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Cutting to the chase, top 10 reasons to entertain a glancing interest in my profile:

1) My nationality is British and spent my childhood there, so when we go to London we could have tea with the Queen. (ok I am an optimist).

2) I recently took a one and a half year sabbatical from work and sailed my 38ft sailboat from San Francisco to Sydney, Australia via the south pacific islands (Marquesas, Tuamotus Atolls, Societies, Cooks, Tonga, Fiji, Vanuatu etc). Next time you can come with me!

3) I was born in Kenya and I am sure I know someone related to Pres Obama if I try hard enough.

4) My ethnicity is East Indian and I can cook a mean curry for you! or we can go to yoga together and I’ll give you even more street cred.

5) Born with a rucksack on my back and have more than fifty stamps in my passport. Whenever and wherever you want to go traveling, my bags are packed.

6) Love the ocean, outdoors and enjoy keeping fit, eating healthy. So if you are looking for a partner in crime to sail, hike, run, bike, dive, ski, camp.... I am your man.

7) My career is important to me but I realise it’s a means to an end. It provides the financial means to pursue passions, dreams.. with my soulmate.

8) Always thinking creatively about designing my life so that I can pursue dreams like sailing to Australia, or backpacking South America while still having a career and a financially secure retirement. Not easily done!

9) I enjoy following current events and reading non-fiction and have some sort of opinion on nearly everything. So if you like good conversation on many topics, start the conversation by clicking “send a message”.

10) Ok maybe 9 reasons are good enough!

I have been in love a time or two and even engaged once, but looking for my last first date. Looking for that special someone to spend the rest of my life with.
What I’m doing with my life
Sailing/racing my sailboat in the bay, hiking, camping, running in the park, biking etc
.... and when I am not doing that I work in Product Management for a tech company downtown.
I’m really good at
It would have been a lot easier to answer this question if they wrote the question the other way around. I have laundry list of stuff I am not good at... e.g. writing profiles ;-)

I guess I am trying to be good at designing my life so that I can my pursue dreams like sailing around the world while still having a career and a financially secure retirement. Not easily done!
The first things people usually notice about me
is that I am full of contradictions!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love documentaries and movies based on true life stories.. Also the Daily show, NPR, Black Adder, Downtown Abbey, House of Cards and standup like Bill Hicks, Aziz Ansari, Chris Rock etc.

Music: Passenger, Poolside, deadmau5, Griz, Imagine Dragons, The Naked and the Famous, Phillip Phillips, The xx, Chicane, Groove Armada, Radiohead, Morcheeba, The Verve etc. etc.

Reads: Mainly non-fiction books like The Endurance by Shackelton, Outliers, the Prize, eat pray love, North to the Night, Steve Jobs autobiography, Maggie Thatchers autobiography, lots of sailing narratives.. the Alchemist.
The Economist, Huffington Post etc.

Fav Foods: Mexican, Indian, Italian and super fresh fish I caught and filleted a few mins ago!
The six things I could never do without
Apart from the obvious things like friends, family etc. I would say.. blue skies, my iphone, a sailboat, hiking boots, ocean and fair winds!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
taking full advantage of the wonderful gift I have been given: This life..
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, bar hopping, checking out yet another new restaurant or having a quiet night in to get an early start for sailing/racing or a hike the next day.

.... now saturday night is a completely different story, only way to find out is to come with me!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Mmm.. that I don't own a TV ;-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If one of my 10 reasons above sparked an interest and you are open to one day doing something crazy like sailing around the world on a sailboat, drop me a note. I look forward to hearing from you and getting on with that last first date!