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reticent, elusive, and a misanthrope

My self-summary Propose an edit

I'm shy and quiet and I know this, people shouldn't feel like they need to point this out to me like it's some kind of profound statement. I like my solitude but I also love my good friends with whom I do get a little louder, I love a good laugh. I'm the type of person who prefers to listen than talk.

I have a sarcastic sense of humour which tends to get me in trouble from time to time but personally I don't see the problem.

I'm nice, or at least I think so. I'm opinionated but open minded.

I love my footy, the decent stuff � not that rugby shit and no I don't watch it just to perve at the men in short shorts.

Oh and I don't think I'm prissy at all.

Things changed in 2006, it's a whole different world.


What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Working out what I want to do with my life.

Still loving my life in Brisbane. Recently moved away from my previous crazy flat mate and have now found myself living with someone I never thought I would, a male. So far it's been an insightful look into the male species.

I completed my Bachelor of Business in 2006, after which I discovered it's not that easy to get a job with just a slip of paper. After then discovering how wonderful unemployment is I finally secured an Admin position which isn't riveting stuff but working for the most wonderful employers makes it worth while, a sheer contrast from the retail world. My current 'I want that job' idea is marketing in the property industry.

Some day I'd love to travel around the world although I'm dealing with the realisation that it's going to be awhile before that happens.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Over thinking, taking photos(I'm my biggest fan & critic), being creative, making lists, organising, over analysing.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My shyness, my height, my glasses

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books - Jodi Picoult - My sister's keeper, The girl most likely - Rebecca Sparrow. Joy Dettman novels, Bunty Avieson novels, Alice Sebold novels and I will always love John Marsden novels.

Movies - The Notebook, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Amelie, Garden State, Beaches, The Sixth Sense, The life of David Gale, Fight Club, Run Lola Run, The Matrix series.

Music - I have wide and varied tastes. Recent favourites include; Toni Collette and the Finish, The Grates, Sarah Blasko, Snow Patrol, Pete Murray, Something for Kate, Nouvelle Vague, Youth Group.

Food - Chocolate, Chinese, Sushi, Mint choc chip ice cream

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

My friends, my family, my camera, my mobile, chocolate, the Internet.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Everything.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Depends on the week, usually I'm buggered after the working week and spend Friday nights at home. Sometimes I might catch up with a friend.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I have issues ... and a few friends would probably testify to this but I'm working on it :p

You should message me if Propose an edit

1. You'd like a new friend 2. You'd like someone interesting to chat to 3. You saw something interesting in my profile 4. You're not the average guy or 5. You're just bored

Oh and a heads up - poor spelling and grammar really bothers me.

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
N/A
Kids
N/A
Pets
N/A
Languages
English (Fluently)

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