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24 • San Francisco, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last Online
- Today – 2:05am
- 5′ 1″ (1.55m)
- Body Type
- Strictly other
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)
UPDATE 2/18-5/18: Visiting Bali, Indonesia for a tropical work-vacation retreat. Without the Eat, Pray, Love mid-life crisis touristy shit.
Booking plane tickets to getaways with 2 days' notice.
Cooking healthy gourmet in 10 minutes.
Massaging the right muscles.
Psycho-analyzing the hell out of you and figuring out the deep dark secrets you didn't know you had. Is that creepy? No, it's self-awareness and empathy.
On weekdays, I'm pretty strict with food (paleo) for athletic performance, mental focus, self-respect, and vanity.
So all this just means that if you're a self-professed "foodie", we should only see each other on weekends.
Books: The Ethical Slut, Non-Violent Communication, and...the book that has made a disproportionate degree of impact on my life, for better or worse: The Four-Hour Workweek. I've realized since reading it that owning a successful "work anywhere, anytime" business and having the freedom to travel the world 24/7 is not what you would expect. Here's what actually happens:
First you "find your passion" and try to make money from it. Then you realize you don't know anything about business and refuse to learn because you are afraid of "selling out". Friends and family start thinking you've gone crazy. This is when most people fail. If you stick it out, after a few years of running around like a headless chicken for 60+ hours per week, you finally end up with a 10-15 hour per week work schedule and can work at any time and any location. Which is great for traveling the world and doing whatever you want most of the time...forever. Wildest dreams achieved.
Little do you know, after a few years of "freedom", the travel bug dies inside you because constant travel and having no commitments in life is just a means of running away from our problems under the guise of "growth" and "challenging comfort zones!!!". Quarterlife crisis time. So then you do some personal development. After that, you decide to do something "meaningful" and try to "change the world", returning to working 60 hours per week. This time, you do it with the kind of dedication a parent has to a child.
I don't know what comes after changing the world, though, because I'm still living that phase. Except not at 60 hours per week. More like 30, because if you actually add up your productive hours, which don't count email or meetings or reading, it comes out to about 3-4 hours of real work per day. 5 hours if you're really good about not checking Facebook or Instagram or Pinterest or Netflix or Hulu or OkCupid and you just work. Without stopping. For 5 hours.
Anyway, after changing the world for the better, I might want to share my world with someone special. Might as well jump ahead and start early :)
I tend to respect people who have the self-awareness to know their own habits, and the maturity to set and respect their own boundaries.
The other half of people are afraid of the internet and won't reveal any personal information except the fact that they like food and "have an OkCupid profile".
I'm also open to friendship (and talking shop about startups, tech, marketing, nutrition, medicine, healthcare) with others of all stripes!
If we're really really similar, we'd probably make better friends than lovers, and that's okay. If we're similar but distinctly different in ways that annoy yet endear us to one another...I tend to like that dynamic with lovers.
Things I'd like to do:
- dance to EDM
- go to a book cafe
- people watch on the beach or park
- bike along an under-utilized route through the city
- visit a tea house
- share nibbles and lay out on blankets on the grass
- try out a wine bar
- snoop in secret underground tunnels
- walk along a body of water, or in nature
- frolic on a playground
- share snuggly cuddles :)
Any of these up your alley? Let's hang out. I'm a better "experience" in person :)
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