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23 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 21
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Medicine/anthropology/psychology nerd --> social entrepreneur.

SF --> LA --> SF --> NYC --> SF. No matter where I go, the Bay Area seems to draw me back with a magnetic force.

Short track speed skater --> runner --> cyclist --> triathlete --> downward dogging swimmer-powerlifter who travels by bike on warm breezy days.

INTJ. Kinky. Open communicator. Advocate of continuous personal growth, cultivation of self-awareness, and empathy with a strong dose of ambition.
What I’m doing with my life
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I help entrepreneurs run and grow their companies, as a marketing consultant and interim CEO. Occasionally, I write books and blog articles about the lessons learned thereof.

Every person I work with is an amazingly accomplished individual creating positive impact in the world through their work....and a friend. The work combines creative and systematic thinking, and allows me to use book-smarts to build street-smarts and learn the rules of business + people so I can positively influence the world with my ideas. More specifically, dangerously controversial ideas around health and healthcare.

Technically, I can work "anywhere, anytime". In reality, it manifests (sometimes, like, 50% of the time) as waking up at 6am for meditation-->gym-->breakfast-->working at a coffee shop or park....because I find a strange sense of solace in self-discipline and routine, but only when freedom, nature, and excitement are readily available standby options.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Cooking healthy gourmet in 10 minutes.

Massaging the right muscles.

Booking $86 plane tickets to international getaways.

Using a strap-on.

Basically, anything I care to practice :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Why ruin the surprise?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Mostly non-fiction. Psychology, business, philosophy, personal development, science, biographies, and sci-fi/fantasy.

Food: Paleo on weekdays. Tea daily. Wine or sake occasionally. Fret not, I can appreciate unlimited amounts of decadent "foodie" selections on the weekends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
So much that it's enough to fill several pages of thoughts into a journal everyday.

Which of the following to optimize for now, in order to gain maximum return on all, so as to have positively influenced 1 million people in 10 years:
- impact
- money
- mastery of skills
- freedom
- network/people
- prestige/formal credentials
- social influence/fame
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on a project that I'm excited about, or chatting with people who are.

Things I would like to do:
- go to a book cafe
- bike along the Marina, through "The Wiggle", or your favorite route through the city
- visit a tea house
- stroll around a Japanese garden
- try out a wine bar
- snoop in the secret underground tunnels
- walk along a body of water
- frolic on a playground
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask me anything! If more people were to ask the right questions, they would know...I find a dominant lady in the bedroom to be incredibly attractive. Same goes for a raw, animalistic bottom/switch who is really in tune with her own body.

Everyone assumes I'm the alpha female 24/7, but it's more complicated than that...
You should message me if
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I "like" you.

You have yet to find someone who can handle your primal sexual side.