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23 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Medicine/anthropology/psychology nerd --> social entrepreneur.

SF --> NYC

Short track speed skater --> runner --> cyclist --> triathlete --> downward dogging swimmer-powerlifter who travels by bike on warm breezy days.

INTJ. Kinky. Open communicator. Advocate of continuous personal and professional growth.

- Temporarily experimenting with short hair, which is making me look boyish.
- Usually androgynous in appearance.
- Always feeling masculine-yet-softie inside.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
The short, the "what": I help entrepreneurs run their companies. Occasionally, I write about the discoveries I make while doing that. For example, the first book I wrote was published in early 2014.

The long, the "why": Using book-smarts to build street-smarts. Learning the rules of business + people so I can positively influence the world with my ideas. Mostly, unconventional ideas around health and healthcare...because I care about impact.

Outside of occasional travel, I normally work anywhere and anytime. This usually manifests as waking up at 6am for meditation-->gym-->breakfast, then working at a coffee shop or Central Park...because I find solace in routine and self-discipline, but only when freedom, nature, and excitement are readily available standby options.

I write my next book on my free time...because I care about being recognized for my ideas and having enough influence to make a dramatic impact on each person I reach.

Past lives:
- Coding apps and setting up websites for business owners.
- Creating an intentional community to connect the pioneers of health and technology.
- Baking cookies in my apartment and delivering them by bicycle to college students.
- Training as an Olympic hopeful.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Cooking healthy gourmet in 10 minutes.

Massaging the right muscles.

Booking $86 plane tickets to international getaways.

Using a strap-on.

Basically, anything I care to practice :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Why ruin the surprise?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Mostly non-fiction. Psychology, business, philosophy, personal development, science, biographies, and sci-fi/fantasy.

Food: Paleo on weekdays. Tea daily. Wine or sake occasionally.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too much.

Which of the following to optimize for now, in order to get maximum return on all in 10 years:
- impact
- money
- skills/learning
- freedom
- prestige/recognition/credibility
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on a project that I'm excited about, or chatting with people who are.

Things I would like to do:
- go to a book cafe
- bike along the Hudson, or your favorite route through the city
- visit a tea house
- stroll around a Japanese garden
- try out a wine bar
- snoop in the secret elevator museum in Manhattan
- walk along a body of water
- frolic on a playground
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask me anything! If more people were to ask the right questions, they would know...I find a dominant lady in the bedroom to be incredibly attractive. Same goes for a raw, animalistic bottom/switch who is really in tune with her own body.

Depending on chemistry, I'm a kinky bottom or vanilla-ish top. Alas, everyone just assumes I'm the alpha female 24/7...
You should message me if
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I "like" you.

You are a yoga instructor earning an M.D., enjoy spending your free time cooking delectable, healthy meals, have an annoyingly regular stream of men crushing and hitting on you, and wish more women would recognize your interest in them instead of mistaking you for a straight woman.

You have yet to find someone who can handle your primal sexual side.