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secretspartan

24 New York, NY Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:43pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Start with a base layer of Silicon Valley book-smarts, ambition, and brash honesty. Next, add several layers of Californian style personal growth, self-awareness, and empathy. Then, mix with a strong dose of New York City street-smarts and cockiness. Finish with a sprinkling of kink and poly.

Visiting friends in NYC until Jan 27.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a morning person. On Wednesday mornings, I'm probably dancing my ass off at one of those recently popular morning EDM events in front of the DJ. Then it's time to dodge cars on my bike through rush hour traffic to a coffee shop for tea, meditation, and focused creative work. After that, I geek out with my friends (er, "clients" and "contractors") about marketing, technology, fitness, and international business expansion...before calling it a day with activities like: downward dogging, lifting heavy things, cuddling, and reading about misaligned incentives in American healthcare.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Pullups.

Booking plane tickets to getaways with 2 days' notice.

Cooking healthy gourmet in 10 minutes.

Massaging the right muscles.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Why ruin the surprise?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: One book that has made a disproportionate degree of impact on my life is The Four-Hour Workweek, but I've realized since reading it that it takes a LOT more work than you would expect to build a successful "work anywhere, anytime" business to fund your chosen lifestyle. But still, you'll be glad if you persist to the end :)

In general, I read non-fiction, non-fiction, and more non-fiction. I'd like to read more fiction though, so I'm open to suggestions.

Food: On weekends, I appreciate all sorts of decadent foods, including mousse cake with whipped creme, pho noodle soup, chirashi with sake, skinny truffle fries with creamy basil aioli, and deep dish supreme pizza with wine + orange juice mixed 50/50 (yes, it's good--I won a $5 bet with a friend on this concoction tasting legitimately good).

On weekdays, I'm pretty strict with food (paleo) for athletic performance, mental focus, self-respect, and vanity.

So all this just means that if you're a self-professed "foodie", we should only see each other on weekends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Many people try to seem exciting and unpredictable in this section by saying, "There is no typical Friday night."

I tend to respect people who have the self-awareness to know their own habits, and the maturity to set and respect their own boundaries.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I live my life pretty transparently (just like half of the OkCupid population, who are "an open book"). It's all about asking the right questions...

The other half of people are afraid of the internet and won't reveal any personal information except the fact that they like food and "have an OkCupid profile".

Right?
You should message me if
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Looking for feminine-leaning ladies with whom to share connection, adventure, intellectual conversation, cuddles, and maybe more if there's a spark ;)

I'm also open to friendship (and talking shop about startups, tech, marketing, nutrition, medicine, healthcare) with others of all stripes!

Things I'd like to do:
- dance to EDM
- go to a book cafe
- people watch on the beach or park
- bike along an under-utilized route through the city
- visit a tea house
- share nibbles and lay out on blankets on the grass
- try out a wine bar
- snoop in secret underground tunnels
- walk along a body of water, or in nature
- frolic on a playground
- share snuggly cuddles :)

Any of these up your alley? Let's hang out. I'm a better "experience" in person :)