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secretspartan

23 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:35pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Technology
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Medicine/anthropology/psychology nerd --> social entrepreneur.

SF --> NYC

Short track speed skater --> runner --> cyclist --> triathlete --> downward dogging swimmer-powerlifter who travels by bike on warm breezy days.

INTJ. Kinky. Open communicator. Advocate of continuous personal and professional growth.

- Temporarily experimenting with short hair, which is making me look boyish.
- Usually androgynous in appearance.
- Always feeling masculine-yet-softie inside.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Using book-smarts to build street-smarts. Learning the rules of business + people so I can positively influence the world with my ideas. Mostly, ideas around health and healthcare.

Currently, that means figuring out how to simultaneously create a new online media company, launch a conference from scratch, and build a consulting practice, all before 2015.

Occasional travel to Southeast Asia is required, but other than that, I work anywhere, which usually manifests as working out of coffee shops or Central Park.

A book I wrote was recently published and is now for sale on Amazon. I write my next book on my free time.

Past lives:
- Coding apps and setting up websites for business owners.
- Creating an intentional community to connect the pioneers of health and technology.
- Training people so they can look and feel good naked.
- Baking cookies in my apartment and delivering them by bicycle to college students.
- Training as an Olympic hopeful.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything I care to practice :)

Biking through the city amidst weekend traffic.

Cooking healthy gourmet in 10 minutes.

Massaging backs.

Booking $86 plane tickets to international getaways.

Pullups.

Negotiating discounts with hostel owners.

Downward dog.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Why ruin the surprise?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Mostly non-fiction. Psychology, business, philosophy, personal development, science, biographies, and sci-fi/fantasy.

Food: Paleo on weekdays. Tea daily. Wine sometimes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on a project that I'm excited about, or chatting with people who are.

Things I would like to do:
- go to a book cafe
- bike along the Hudson, or your favorite route through the city
- visit a tea house
- stroll around a Japanese garden
- try out a wine bar
- snoop in the secret elevator museum in Manhattan
- walk along a body of water
- frolic on a playground
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask me anything! If more people were to ask the right questions, they would know...I find a dominant lady in the bedroom to be incredibly hot. Same goes for a raw, animalistic bottom/switch who is really in tune with her own body.

Depending on chemistry, I'm a kinky bottom or vanilla-ish top. But alas, everyone just assumes I'm the alpha female 24/7...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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I'm not looking for someone who is exactly the same as myself. Rather, someone who can be the yin to my yang, so to speak.

You can describe yourself with some of the following:
Free spirit, traveler, yogi, artist, creator, writer, entrepreneur, optimist, healthy, meditator, growth-oriented, empathetic, passionate.

You identify as a delicate flower hippie, inside or out, secretly or wholeheartedly.

You are very feminine, through and through, inside and out, but low maintenance.

You identify as INFP, ENFP, INFJ, or ENFJ.