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- Ages 18–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 6:23am
- 5′ 1″ (1.55m)
- Body Type
- Strictly other
- Other, and laughing about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly)
Recently, I stopped working for others and started projects I've always wanted to work on.
On Monday mornings, I'm having a check-in call with my productivity coach. On Wednesday mornings, I'm dancing my ass off at one of those recently popular morning EDM events in front of the DJ.
Then it's time to dodge cars on my bike through rush hour traffic to a cafe, office, lab, or studio for tea, meditation, and a mix of creative, analytical, and technical work.
After that, I geek out with friends about various topics, before calling it a day with activities that make me more connected to people who matter, closer to being a superhuman, or more wise, smart, and at peace with myself.
Although I will always consider San Francisco "home", I do like to travel and live in other parts of the world for months at a time, to really sink into the cultural rhythm of a place. However, I'm inexplicably drawn to people who value stability and the romantic slow life over novelty and fast paced adventure.
Cooking healthy gourmet in 10 minutes.
Massaging the right muscles.
Being brutally honest, taking critical feedback well, and not playing games.
Psycho-analyzing the hell out of you and figuring out the deep dark secrets you didn't know you had. Is that creepy? No, it's self-awareness and empathy.
These tell me a lot about people I meet:
- how they handle conflict and disagreement
- their relationship with their body and mind
- the words they tell themselves
- the words they use about the world
- how much time they spend creating or consuming
On weekdays, I'm pretty strict with food (paleo) for athletic performance, mental focus, self-respect, and vanity.
So all this just means that if you're a self-professed "foodie", we should only see each other on weekends. Unless you are a paleo-ish foodie. Then we should see each other all the time and you can cook dinner while I cuddle you from behind and do the dishes after. Then we can make out and do tantalizingly dirty things to each other.
Books: Classically controversial books. Ones you've probably heard of include...The Ethical Slut, Sex At Dawn, Non-Violent Communication, The Four-Hour Workweek.
I tend to respect people who have the self-awareness to know their own habits, and the maturity to set and respect their own boundaries.
The other half of people are afraid of the internet and won't reveal any personal information except the fact that they like food and "have an OkCupid profile".
Things I like to do:
- dance to EDM
- bike along an under-utilized route through the city
- hike along the coast
- rock climbing
- snoop in secret underground tunnels
- walk along a body of water, or in nature
- frolic on a playground
- visit a quirky venue or landmark
- play the 4-question personality game
- play the 36-question engineered love game
- gaze into someone's eyes without a word
- share snuggly cuddles :)
Any of these up your alley? Let's hang out. We'll have a better experience in person :)
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