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sedj

34 / M / straight / Single

Tucson, Arizona

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Smart, Witty, and Genuine.

My Self-Summary

I'm a pretty laid back guy. I like to have fun, laugh, and joke with my friends. I like to think I'm fun and that I make people laugh. I'm also really young for my age. Almost all of my friends are in their 20's, and I feel a lot more comfortable around them then around people my own age.

My favorite thing to do is probably Ultimate frisbee. I also like Volleyball and Basketball, but I haven't played any of that since college. I like to play all kinds of games, and I'm pretty good at them.

I work as a Structural Engineer, and when I'm not working I'm playing board games or trying to get my own published. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't use any drugs... I don't even like to take aspirin or cough syrup.

I like to watch movies... even bad ones. I like stories - I like to listen to the lyrics on songs and think about what they might mean.

I'm also practical, most of the time anyway. In college I used to be cheap because I didn't have any money. Now I'm neither cheap, nor broke, but I'm used to not spending frivolously.

What I’m doing with my life

I've got it pretty together... car paid off, career, house, hobbies, lots of friends. I'm just looking for someone to share it with.

I'd like to find someone I match up well with, and one day I'd like to have a family - hopefully before I get too old to enjoy it. I want my own kids, so I'm not looking for someone who already has kids.

Edit: For the time being I'm taking a hiatus from my engineering job (thank you recession!). In the meantime I'm helping a friend start a company to publish board games. It's pretty fun and interesting, and that beats a paycheck any day, right?

My game debuts this week at a convention in Dallas, and will be in stores like next month. It's pretty exciting!

I’m really good at

Strategy, figuring stuff out, and throwing a Frisbee.

The first things people usually notice about me

I really don't know.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Hitchhiker trilogy (All 5 of them, though Mostly Harmless seemed drawn out and contrived). Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency, also by Douglas Addams. Earth by David Brin. The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime - a story about an autistic teenager, from the point of view of the teenager. Dan Brown's Deception Point and Da Vinci Code.

Movies: Young Sherlock Holmes, The Adventures of Ford Fairlane, Boondock Saints, Indiana Jones (Especially The Last Crusade), Star Wars.

Music: Almost anything. I don't love Country or Gangster rap. I especially like 80s (like The Cure). The Beastie Boys should get special mention - how can you not respect 3 dorky, white, Jewish kids who made it big in rap?

Food: Chipotle Burritos, French Fries/Baked Potatoes, and Baby Back Ribs.

The six things I could never do without

Friends
Eyesight
Dexterity
Internet
Games
Creativity

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Games. Screw-ups. What-ifs.

On a typical Friday night I am

Playing games with friends at my house, or maybe going to the comedy club.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Despite the ridiculous ads, I would really like a Snuggie.

You should message me if

You are looking for companionship: Someone to hang out with, joke around with, maybe even date.

You can call me picky, but I shy away from people who cannot operate the shift key, or use "lol" in anything other than an Instant Message.