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31 / M / Straight / Single

Portland, Oregon

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Jacked
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am 75% girl. I have boy parts. I don't feel the need to change them with surgery, or dress like a woman. I am who I am. I am not ashamed. I am stigmatized for being sensitive, especially by women. I find dating bisexual or queer women to be ideal as they tend to "get it" more than your average "straight" girl who wants her man to grunt, kill spiders and watch football so she can read Cosmo in peace.....

I flip often between male and female energies depending on the masculinity of my partner and the circumstance of situation. I like boy stuff like video games, hanging with male friends and solo sports. In my female role it makes me very happy to take care of my partner domestically. I quite enjoy cuddling, spending quiet evenings together and spoiling my partner even ;)

I don't talk funny or look different than any other guy.The difference is I'd probably rather hug you than shake your hand. I'm big on touch and I feel we don't get nearly enough of it day to day.
What I’m doing with my life
Things, and stuff.
I’m really good at
empathy, understanding, healing, forgiveness, generosity, giving second chances, loving others unconditionally, appearing masculine, forming bonds through empathetic touch.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Is it boring enough for me to fall asleep to?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm sorta putting it all out there already? See above. I'm staying anonymous for now but if we are having a conversation I will send pictures should you want to see my pretty face.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 26–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to start a conversation. You've been with a soft man before or want to be. You want to know more about me.