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25 Eureka, CA Cis Man, Non-binary

Cis Man, Non-binary

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-35
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Oct 21
Queer, Questioning, Heteroflexible
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I just moved to Eureka at the beginning of June. I'd lived in San Diego for 15 years, and it was time for a change. I'm trying to figure out a lot of things about myself and where I want to be in the world, and moving here is part of that process.

I love to explore, debate philosophy, politics, and theology, go to the beach or the mountains, cuddle with my cat, and try new foods. I thrive on smart conversation, and love to learn new things. Basically I'm a good, caring person on a quest to grow as a human being, whatever that means.
What I’m doing with my life
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I spent my early 20s working as an Office Manager at a radical non-profit working primarily on Gay and Trans rights. It was fulfilling work, but as with all good things it came to end. I had a few jobs since then, managing an ice cream shop, working at a fancy schmany condo complex as a concierge, and now working at a Pharmacy here in Humboldt.

I like to make art, go on hikes, play board games, and I'm trying to introduce writing back into my routine. I've taken college courses on and off for seven years, and I have no clue where that's headed, if anywhere.

For now I'm studying for my Pharmacy Technician license. I don't know if I'd want to do that forever either, but the pay is good and the work is interesting. After that, who knows...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, Perfume, The Moon is a Harsh Mistress, Harry Potter, The Left Hand of Darkness, Ender's Game, The Dispossessed, Harry Potter, Foundation series, The Giver, His Dark Materials, Perfume, Darkly Dreaming Dexter, Harry Potter....

Movies: The Forbidden Zone, Waking Life, Waking Ned Divine, Hedvig and the Angry Inch, God Bless America, Tough Guise, What Would Jesus Buy?, Tucker and Dale Versus Evil, The Cabin in the Woods (probably my favorite movie), Snowpiercer, all the MCU movies (though I wish they'd start getting a little more inclusive)

Shows: Adventure Time!, Firefly, Dead Like Me, The Booth at the End, Misfits, Daily Show (still deciding how i feel about Trevor), Farscape, Battlestar Galactica, Star Trek (s), Scrubs, Rick and Morty, Futurama, House of Cards, Cosmos: a Spacetime Odyssey, Gravity Falls, Bee and Puppycat, Steven Universe, all the MCU shows

Pandora Stations: The Coup, The Roots, Postal Service, Brother Ali, Lupe Fiasco, Trip Hop, Andrew Jackson Jihad, Gogol Bordello, Sufjan Stevens, Cab Calloway, Big Band Swing, Clean Bandit, Mavis Staples

Podcasts: Freakonomics, This American Life, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, Radiolab, Savage Lovecast, TED Talks Radio Hour, Intelligence Squared, Marketplace Money, Various NPR shows,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Vegan Chipotle Mayo
Watson! (my cat)
Excessive amounts of thrift store art
Informative YouTube videos and cute cartoons
A decent park or hike close to my house
Cute socks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Existentialism, political injustices, the eventual downfall of capitalism, that book/comic/script/podcast/art/video I tell myself I'm going to make someday, where my life is headed, what I would name new pets, how I should be spending more time in the water...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully something different than I did the previous Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Im kind of an old person when it comes to tech. I'm really bad at texting. I can do it, but it stresses me out. And OKC is literally my only social media account.
You should message me if
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You are an intelligent, loving person who likes to talk, learn, cuddle and go on adventures.