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seekingbella

46 M Fairfield, CT

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am outgoing, adventurous, and always up for a challenge. I love kids, animals, travel, meeting new people, learning new things, reading a good book, a nice glass of red wine, thunderstorms, snowstorms, mountains, the ocean, riding horses, being out in nature, witty reparte, joking, laughing, all outdoor sports, going out, staying in, listening to music, hearing a great band, dancing, singing, writing, discovering new things about those important to me, and really connecting with someone.
What I’m doing with my life
Evaluating it on a daily basis to make myself a better Father, Son, Brother, Neighbor, Friend and Human Being
I’m really good at
Making people laugh, Multi Tasking, Spontaneity, Driving (especially parallel parking) , Having Fun, Burning Cookies while baking, eating take out Chinese food in bed during snow/thunderstorms
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my hazel eyes, my wavy, black hair or my guffaw
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Love Latin Jazz music, old Jazz; The Beatles, Steely Dan, Stones, Who, Pink Floyd, Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Miles Davis, Frank Sinatra, Diana Krall, Tito Puente, Eddie Palmieri, America, Crosby Stills Nash and Young, Eagles, U2, Death Cab for Cutie, Temper Trap, Green River Ordinance, the Fray, Howie Day, The Cure, The Police, Guided by Voices, Depeche Mode, New Order, Oasis, Radiohead, Puddle of Mudd, Sloan, Spoon, The Smiths, Wilco, Brian Jonestown Massacre, Roxy Music, Talking Heads, Ryan Adams, just to name a few.

Favorite Books include: the Cat in the Hat, Green Eggs and Ham, The Whispering Rabbit, Stuart LIttle, The Missing Piece, The Missing Piece Meets the Big O, The Catcher in the Rye, One Flew Over The Cukoo's Nest, All Quiet On The Western Front, Anna Karenina, Siddhartha, Love in the Time of Cholera, The House of the Spirits, 100 Years of Solitude, The Great Gatsby, To Kill a Mockingbird, Wuthering Heights, The Cider House

Favorite Films: Casablanca, Citizen Cane, The Godfather, The Godfather II, Dog Day Afternoon, Sleeper, Annie Hall, Hannah and her Sisters, Wuthering Heights (original with Olivier), One Flew Over the Cukoo's Nest, Five Easy Pieces, Jaws, Alien, Aliens, Scarface (Tony Montana), Saving Private Ryan, The Hangover, Lawrence of Arabia, 2001 Space Odyssey, Silence of the Lambs, The Cider House Rules, The Graduate, Star Wars, Dr. Strangelove, Fargo, Forrest Gump, Goodfellas, Raging Bull, Amadeus, The French Connection, Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown, 4 Weddings and a Funeral, Little Miss Sunshine, Definately, Maybe, Cinema Paradiso, City Of God, God Bless America, Good Will Hunting, Rounders, Flight, The Artist, Argo, Searching for Sugar Man, Silver Linings Playbook, Blackfish, The Heat, Gravity
The six things I could never do without
Love, Ipod, Exercise, Amex Gold Card, Car, Friends/Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Saving the world from incompetence. Still working on it. How much I loathe OK CUPID. Why people never upload pictures of what they look like when they first wake up and get out of bed in the morning. Might be a good idea for a new dating website. Is it rude to ask someone who posts photos of themselves with their friends for their friends phone numbers? Why on earth would anyone put a code in the self summary part of their profile for people to crack? Online dating is hard enough as it is, now people are expecting you to crack a code to find out something about them. If you are seeing someone, why are you on a dating website? Please spare me "its for the journal entries" excuse, that is the equivalent of a guy subscribing to Playboy for the great articles. Why is it that 9 out of 10 times, when a person posts a photo of themselves with a child on this website, it's not their child. Is it just to make them look "child friendly"? Why men never list the fact that they are just as comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt as they are in an Armani suit. Einstein once stated that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results. I'm beginning to think he was talking about dating. Why the Real Housewives shows on Bravo are still called that when 70% of them are now divorced. Maybe they could change it to Housewives and Former Housewives. Why it feels like I am living Don Drapers life sometimes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either eating take out chinese food and watching the latest new release on Netflix with my daughters or headed to NYC for some fine cuisine.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hate clowns. They frighten me. Also Spongebob Squarepants is one of my heroes.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Clowns scare you too. You should NOT message me if your first concert was Debbie Gibson or you think that my login name means that I'm seeking the actresss from the Twilight movies. That's just sick. Additionally, if you are GU (geographically undesirable), a smoker, are into Nascar, incapable of forming and conveying coherent thoughts, are an alcoholic or a recovering one, currently separated, a commitment-phobe, or conveniently devoid of profile photos, have sketches of yourself in lieu of photos, have a profile that states how thoughtful and considerate you are yet you have a photo of yourself outside a courthouse wearing a Sash that reads "Just Divorced", have a photo of yourself pointing a loaded revolver into the camera or posing with an assault weapon while smiling, have a tattoo which reads "F*cking Classy" on your lower back, you answered that the Earth is bigger than the Sun in the questions section, you have a hidden profile----you also need NOT message me. I have matured enough to know that looks are not a priority for me. What impresses me is character, values and the person that you are inside. There seems to be an abundance of professional daters on this website so please do not message me if you are just trying to add me to your dating pool. I am looking for a relationship, not looking to become part of a dating pool. Lastly, I have a rescue dog and worked with Save a Sato for many years so if you do not like dogs it will surely be an issue.