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seekingbella

46 M Fairfield, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an Extrovert, a Father, a Son, a Brother. I love children, travel, meeting new people, reading a good book, a glass of wine, a steaming cup of Coffee in the morning, thunderstorms, the ocean, being outdoors, joking, laughing, all outdoor sports, going out, staying in, listening to music, hearing a great band in concert, dancing, singing, writing, discovering something new on a daily basis
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Evaluating it on a daily basis to make myself a better Father, Son, Brother, Neighbor, Friend and Human Being
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, Multi Tasking, Spontaneity, Driving (especially parallel parking) , Having Fun, Burning Cookies while baking, eating take out Chinese food in bed during snow/thunderstorms
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Either my hazel eyes, my wavy, black hair or my guffaw
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love Latin Jazz music, old Jazz; The Beatles, Steely Dan, Stones, Who, Pink Floyd, Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Miles Davis, Frank Sinatra, Diana Krall, Tito Puente, Eddie Palmieri, America, Crosby Stills Nash and Young, Eagles, U2, Death Cab for Cutie, Temper Trap, Green River Ordinance, the Fray, Howie Day, The Cure, The Police, Guided by Voices, Depeche Mode, New Order, Joy Division, The Pixies, Oasis, Radiohead, Puddle of Mudd, Sloan, Spoon, The Smiths, Wilco, Brian Jonestown Massacre, Roxy Music, Talking Heads, Ryan Adams, just to name a few.

Favorite Books include: the Cat in the Hat, Green Eggs and Ham, The Whispering Rabbit, Stuart LIttle, The Missing Piece, The Missing Piece Meets the Big O, The Catcher in the Rye, One Flew Over The Cukoo's Nest, All Quiet On The Western Front, Anna Karenina, Siddhartha, Love in the Time of Cholera, The House of the Spirits, 100 Years of Solitude, The Great Gatsby, To Kill a Mockingbird, Wuthering Heights, The Cider House Rules, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, David and Goliath (Gladwell)

Favorite Films: Casablanca, Citizen Cane, The Godfather, The Godfather II, Dog Day Afternoon, Sleeper, Annie Hall, Hannah and her Sisters, Wuthering Heights (original with Olivier), One Flew Over the Cukoo's Nest, Five Easy Pieces, Jaws, Alien, Aliens, Scarface (Tony Montana), Saving Private Ryan, The Hangover, Lawrence of Arabia, 2001 Space Odyssey, Silence of the Lambs, The Cider House Rules, The Graduate, Star Wars, Dr. Strangelove, Fargo, Forrest Gump, Goodfellas, Raging Bull, Amadeus, The French Connection, Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown, 4 Weddings and a Funeral, Little Miss Sunshine, Definately, Maybe, Cinema Paradiso, City Of God, God Bless America, Good Will Hunting, Rounders, Flight, The Artist, Argo, Searching for Sugar Man, Silver Linings Playbook, Blackfish, The Heat, Gravity
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, I Phone, Exercise, Amex Gold Card, Car, Friends/Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Saving the world from incompetence. Still working on it. How much I loathe OK CUPID. Why people never upload pictures of what they look like when they first wake up and get out of bed in the morning. Might be a good idea for a new dating website. Is it rude to ask someone who posts photos of themselves with their friends for their friends phone numbers? Why on earth would anyone put a code in the self summary part of their profile for people to crack? Online dating is hard enough as it is, now people are expecting you to crack a code to find out something about them. If you are seeing someone or married, why are you on a dating website? Please spare me "its for the journal entries" excuse, that is the equivalent of a guy subscribing to Playboy for the great articles. Why is it that 9 out of 10 times, when a person posts a photo of themselves with a child on this website, it's not their child. Is it just to make them look "child friendly"? Why men never list the fact that they are just as comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt as they are in an Armani suit. Einstein once stated that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results. I'm beginning to think he was talking about dating. Why the Real Housewives shows on Bravo are still called that when 70% of them are now divorced. Maybe they could change it to Housewives and Former Housewives. Also if you're at the dentist office waiting and the receptionist states he's running late because he had to do an emergency procedure does that mean he's really just on the toilet?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either eating take out chinese food and watching the latest new release on Netflix with my daughters or headed to NYC for some fine cuisine and nightlife fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate clowns. They frighten me. Spongebob Squarepants is one of my heroes. I know all the lyrics to "Jessie's Girl"
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Clowns scare you too. You should NOT message me if your first concert was Debbie Gibson or you think that my login name means that I'm seeking the actresss from the Twilight movies. That's just sick. Additionally, if you are GU (geographically undesirable), a smoker, are into Nascar, incapable of forming and conveying coherent thoughts, are an alcoholic or a recovering one, currently separated, a commitment-phobe, or conveniently devoid of profile photos, have sketches of yourself in lieu of photos, have lived with 5 cats or more in a studio apartment for over a decade, have a profile that states how thoughtful and considerate you are, yet you have a photo of yourself outside a courthouse wearing a Sash that reads "Just Divorced", have a photo of yourself pointing a loaded revolver into the camera or posing with an assault weapon while smiling, have a tattoo which reads "F*cking Classy" on your lower back, you have more tattoos than David Beckham, you answered that the Earth is bigger than the Sun in the questions section, you have a hidden profile or all your photos are taken 50 feet away making you appear as a minuscule object in the Horizon --you also need NOT message me. I have matured enough to know that looks are not a priority for me. What impresses me is character, values and the person that you are inside. There seems to be an abundance of professional daters on this website so please do not message me if you are just trying to add me to your dating pool. I am looking for a relationship, not looking to become part of a dating pool. Lastly, I have a rescue dog and worked with Save a Sato for many years so if you do not like dogs it will surely be an issue.