It seems that the kind of man I'm looking for is just not the kind of man who uses okc. Ah, well.
I've decided to keep the profile up anyway, as a public service, to educate/tell off the disrespectful, often spamming doorknobs who contact women without reading their profiles first, about how inconsiderate that kind of thoughtless behavior is.
For the hundreds of men that have contacted me (and contacted lots of other women) while neglecting to read our profiles, get a f*cking clue.
In fact, here are three clues below:
1.) Read Her Profile and
2.) send a Thoughtful, Customized Message,
3.) which Does NOT Need to be Long, Only ~200 CHARACTERS.
NOT 200 words. Just a mere 200 CHARACTERS. If the average length of the words you use in such a message is five characters, that's only 40 WORDS. Is that too much for you? Really? Really?! If so, stay single.
For the smarter few who know better, for historical purposes, here is what I used to lead with...
I would like to spend time with a man who I have chemistry with. Someone who has some civic consciousness, such as similar interests in or is curious about the cultures of the world, positive political/social change, and/or fascinated with philosophy, the bigger questions of life, and/or multi-faith religious dialogue/studies. :)
This actually covers a lot of ground where I hope we might have something in common! Such as global studies, environmental issues, cutting-edge science, progressive public policy, indigenous rights, volunteering/community service, human rights, social justice, peace and conflict resolution, democracy capacity building, interfaith dialogue, and more! Do any of these appeal to you? :)
-------------If you are interested in messaging me, please let me know about one of the things you are interested in chatting more about or involved in like what I wrote above--a perfect ice breaker! :)
(This also lets me know that you read my profile before contacting me -- something that 99.99% of the bros here don't do. Also kindly have at least one clear face pic of yourself on your profile before contacting me. Thanks!)
I also run my own small business related to writing, editing, presentations, verbal communication, career counseling, and more. It enables me to work with language on a variety of topics and connect with people from around the globe, both things that I love.
With the right match, I'd like to exchange back and scalp massages on a couch or bed... and so forth... ;) ), curl up and watch some funny or interesting Youtube videos together, listen to music we both enjoy, maybe take some walks in the nearby parks or visit some museums... How does that sound to you? ;)