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23 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 29
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Latin (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*Spending the next six weeks in NY, but live in the Bay Area*

No matter how much I like to write, I can't help but think there's something a bit crass about asking me or someone else to describe themselves right off the bat. I'd rather sidle into it a bit after we decide if it's less than unlikely that we'll end up spilling our guts to the blank and awkward apathy of an irrevocably dissimilar audience.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Nearly all of my favorite things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading fast (like, really fast), having long conversations that actually go somewhere, cooking with wild plants and mushrooms. Taking people more seriously than they take themselves. Eating my cuticles (those angles get rough, man). Playing the Devil's Advocate. Generally and genuinely giving a fuck (for those of you with no fucks left to give, I'm so sorry, dating must be very difficult). I can go from completely awake and talking to fast asleep in under 15 seconds.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My curls are teetering on the edge of chaos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Infinite Jest, East of Eden, Paradise Lost (books 1 and 2), Blood Meridian, John Williams' Augustus, The Brothers Karamazov, Death's Jest Book, 1984, A Clockwork Orange, Oryx and Crake, the Oresteia, Dangerous Laughter, Never Let Me Go, Watchmen, Mating, The Orphan Master's Son. Federico Garcia Lorca, Philip K. Dick, Neil Gaiman, Richard Matheson, Brom.

Movies: The Silence of the Lambs, Natural Born Killers, Moonrise Kingdom, Requiem for a Dream, Nightcrawler, The Prestige, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, Django Unchained, The Dark Knight.

Shows: The Walking Dead, Black Mirror, House of Cards, South Park, Game of Thrones, Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Rick and Morty's pretty funny.

Blogs: Usually, I like to explain everything, but these are so special they stand on their own. Slate Star Codex, The Last Psychiatrist, Mallory Ortberg on The Toast.

Other stuff I really like: Louis CK, Andrew Scott as Moriarty (him asking for a stick of gum is scarier than anything most people ever do), Monotropa uniflora, luminism, picking out rare dog breeds on the street, animals that are ugly-cute, and real-life hero dogs (yah I really like dogs).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a pencil and paper, my lighter, my taser, and my ring. And everything they stand for.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Effective altruism and animal activism, climate engineering (women are underrepresented in the mad sciences, and I want to change that!), feral children, salvia, life in the past, life in the future...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
, I hope.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
this makes me cry
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to talk to me. It's not just that it might be a good idea to message me. It's literally the only way it might happen because I never message anyone. I hate initiating the process.

I'm dating some other people. Perhaps you are too. I will refrain from asking you to have a threesome with anyone as the price for getting to know me. I hope you extend the same courtesy.

You know about a secret thing I don't know about.

You fear failure, but love triumph more.

You'd like to recommend a book to me to maintain plausible deniability for wanting to ask me out while establishing contact. Or you'd actually like to recommend a book to me.