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30 M Trussville, AL

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
My self summary... Hmm... Well, I guess this is where I write a bunch of stuff about how awesome I am and you decide whether or not you want to talk to me based on a picture and the aforementioned writings. Well, that's great.


I'm kind of an introvert unless we have something to talk about, then we can communicate. However, I can't force it; if we don't work together I'll be your friend and all but I'm not a miracle worker. Want to talk about yourself? That's cool, I'm a good listener. Want to talk about me? Then we're probably going to talk about quantum physics and how we're just beings of energy, energy that just moves around and vibrates and such - the universe experiencing itself, or some other nerdy nonsense.

I'm usually busy. If I'm not busy I can make myself busy. Alright, I'm really not that busy, but I know how to look busy. I'm not looking to chase women all over the internet because I don't do it in the real world. I'm looking to run across cool people who might want to hang out every now and then, and if we connect on a level deeper than "OMG! BOOBS/BEARD*" then we may continue. I'm only interested in hanging out with people who are in it to better themselves and others, and no succubi.

*note: I will be attracted to your boobs, because boobs are nice. You will be attracted to my beard, because beards are nice. Let's not lose focus people...
What I’m doing with my life
Currently, I am wrapping up my BS in Psychology at UAB. *edit, I'm currently enrolled in my last required undergraduate class – Human Anatomy – Summer '14. I'm studying off and on for the GRE and soon enough I'll give it my college try to convince some university's graduate program to accept me. (For all you graduate school graduates, I do realize that NOW is the time to be applying for grad schools, but I'm going work for a year after undergrad to determine what exactly I want to specialize in)

I'm either going to end up writing books or teaching/counseling or something or I'm moving to India to avoid paying back my student loans.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at listening. I'm also really good at talking about myself. What I'm best at is listening to you talk about me. That's awesome.

All foolin' aside I am a good listener - there's a reason I'm studying psychology. I'm really analytical but I can feel emotions. I. am. not. a. robot.

Also, I'm good at fixing stuff, but not when someone's watching. I mean, geeze, what do you think I am, an engineer? Also, I'm really good at taking stuff apart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Books: The Divine Comedy, Don Quixote, The Dhammapada, Tao Te Ching, Ender's Game, The Miracle of Mindfulness, Prometheus Rising, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, the smallest amount of a required textbook necessary to understand the concept – which is usually a lot of words, etc.

Movies: Cool Hand Luke, One Flew Over the Cookoo's Nest, Lord of the Rings trilogy, Original Star Wars trilogy, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, etc.

Television: Battlestar Galactica, Band of Brothers, Adventure Time, old History Channel stuff, Firefly, and for those in the know - Joffrey must DIE!, etc.

Music: Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Tool, Rush, The Avett Brothers, The Alabama Shakes, Mozart, Radiohead, The Flaming Lips, etc.

Food: Anything that was made with love.
The six things I could never do without
1. Oxygen: You need that to survive
2. Water: You also need that to survive
3. Homeostasis: Nobody wants to be sick
4. Synaptic firing: Everybody needs a working brain
5. Light: It's hard to see in the dark
6. College Football: War Eagle!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sometimes I'm giving lessons from my higher self to my lower self. I think a lot about tapping into the etheric body. I visualize my chakra system sometimes.

One game I like to play with myself is the "anti-lust" game. As soon as I start lusting after someone or something I see how quickly I can break the spell and not get caught up in it again. It's usually a losing battle, but I try to stay on my toes. I mean, it's easy to lust after something, but it's hard to keep clean.

I also think about metta or "loving kindness" and general mindfulness. I aim to train my monkey mind...
On a typical Friday night I am
Not doing anything exciting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Undergraduate research assistants get a lot of perks, like working with prolific researchers and potential recommendation letters, but one of those perks is not a paycheck.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You should message me if you feel like we might get along.