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seeunder

31 M Trussville, AL

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My self summary... Hmm... Well, I guess this is where I write a bunch of stuff about how awesome I am and you decide whether or not you want to talk to me based on a picture and the aforementioned writings. Well, that's great.

So...

I'm kind of an introvert unless we have something to talk about, then we can communicate. However, I can't force it; if we don't work together I'll be your friend and all but I'm not a miracle worker. Want to talk about yourself? That's cool, I'm a good listener. Want to talk about me? Then we're probably going to talk about quantum physics and how we're just beings of energy, energy that just moves around and vibrates and such - the universe experiencing itself, or some other nerdy nonsense.

I'm usually busy. If I'm not busy I can make myself busy. Alright, I'm really not that busy, but I know how to look busy. I'm not looking to chase women all over the internet because I don't do it in the real world. I'm looking to run across cool people who might want to hang out every now and then, and if we connect on a level deeper than "OMG! BOOBS/BEARD*" then we may continue. I'm only interested in hanging out with people who are in it to better themselves and others, and no succubi.

*note: I will be attracted to your boobs, because boobs are nice. You will be attracted to my beard, because beards are nice. Let's not lose focus people...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
*Update: As of August 8th, 2014, I became a freshly minted Bachelor of Science in Psychology – which means I'm trained (poorly) in the basics of how to perform scientific research on something psychological – I am not a therapist (although I recently had someone tell me I'd make a good one. It was life affirming). I am currently in limbo about graduate school (which track, which school, etc.) and am also currently trying to find a new big boy job. Not a lot you can do with a BS in Psychology other than get more schooling....

I'm either going to end up writing books or teaching/counseling or something or I'm moving to India to avoid paying back my student loans.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at listening. I'm also really good at talking about myself. What I'm best at is listening to you talk about me. That's awesome.

All foolin' aside I am a pretty good communicator - there's a reason I'm studying psychology. I'm really analytical but I can feel emotions. I. am. not. a. robot.

Also, I'm good at fixing stuff, but not when someone's watching. I mean, geeze, what do you think I am, an engineer? Also, I'm really good at taking stuff apart.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hmm...

Books: The Divine Comedy, Don Quixote, The Dhammapada, Tao Te Ching, Ender's Game, The Miracle of Mindfulness, Prometheus Rising, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, the smallest amount of a required textbook necessary to understand the concept, etc.

Movies: Cool Hand Luke, One Flew Over the Cookoo's Nest, Lord of the Rings trilogy, Original Star Wars trilogy, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, etc.

Television: Battlestar Galactica, Band of Brothers, Adventure Time, old History Channel stuff, Firefly, Red Wedding – boo! Purple Wedding – YAY!, etc.

Music: Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, Tool, Rush, The Avett Brothers, The Alabama Shakes, Mozart, Radiohead, The Flaming Lips, other stuff, etc.

Food: Anything that was made with love.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Oxygen: You need that to survive
2. Water: You also need that to survive
3. Homeostasis: Nobody wants to be sick
4. Action potentials: Everybody needs a working brain
5. Light: It's hard to see in the dark
6. Coffee: I'm most definitely addicted to caffeine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sometimes I'm giving lessons from my higher self to my lower self. I think a lot about tapping into the etheric body. I visualize my chakra system sometimes.

One game I like to play with is the "anti-lust" game, a.k.a. unhealthy craving. As soon as I start craving someone or something I see how quickly I can break the spell and not get caught up in it again. It's usually a losing battle, but I try to stay on my toes. I mean, it's easy to lust after something, but it's hard to keep clean.

I think about metta or "loving kindness" and general mindfulness. I practice Tonglen sometimes. I aim to train my monkey mind...

How can I be at one with the Tao if the true Tao is unknowable?

What the hell is my unconscious up to, and why do I keep misspelling that word? Oh, you, Trickster....

Reconciliation. Redemption. Mostly reconciliation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not doing anything exciting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Some research assistants get a lot of perks, like working with prolific researchers and potential recommendation letters, but one of those perks is not a real paycheck, at least not right now.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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If you want to. Truth be told, I'm on this site to meet women that I would not normally meet in my travels 'round campus. But, I fell in love (of the eros variety) with one of my professors one time. She was a PhD candidate. So, if you're her, you should message me. You should also message me if you're not.

You should message me if you want to have an intelligent conversation or you think you can teach me something; and you know how to approach a guy with new information and not crush his ego at the same time. My ego is not that fragile, but it's always nice to talk to someone with tact.

You should message me if you find yourself at one with the Tao more often than not, and you're not so hung up on the philosophy as much as the concept that it proposes.

You should message me if you've read all this stuff and you want to, but I already said that.