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38 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 3
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
I have a washer and dryer in my apartment and that's a really good summary of me.

I'm a simple guy, on my own path, sarcastic, well traveled, down with high and low culture, able to dress myself properly, critical but essentially hopeful and optimistic, willing to get down to some reggae/dancehall.

I can also do long division on paper and can explain the theory of relativity (which is still blowing my mind).

I can make stuff. I make stuff. I can fix stuff. I can use tools.

I lived in Paris for 9 months and my French went from non-existent to really shitty. That's an improvement right? I speak French only to dogs and babies.

Seriously, though I'm rather amazed at how much more there is to learn and how much more there is to figure out at this age, and, … does this couple of paragraphs this even minutely represent who I am?

I'm that guy who will give you a back rub at the end of a long day.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing, making art, showing it, trying to not get hurt on my bike again. Skateboarding through the city. Finding a path for the creative life. And now running my new bicycle bag company.

To be more specific... working on a few books, art pieces, art furniture, and bags.
I’m really good at
Moisturizing. Calculating the tip. Daydreaming. Breaking down other people's problems.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Sushi. The steak I had in Madrid. The salad I had at Five Leaves Greenpoint. The seafood I had in Barcelona. The food I had at a tiny restaurant in Hamburg. Cous cous with meregeuz sausage in Belleville, Paris. Ugh. I'm hungry now.

Ham on Rye by Bukowski, Catcher in the Rye by Salinger. Where I'm Calling From by Carver. The Heart is Deceitful Above All Things by J.T. Leroy (yeah I know he's not real). Self portrait in a Convex Mirror by John Ashbury. Yeah, I can read.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. Before Sunrise. Before Sunset.

Not sure what my fav bands are anymore but these guys have stood the test of time. Coltrane. Yo la Tengo. Modest Mouse. Pavement.

Oh and This American Life is pretty damn good.
The six things I could never do without
Contact lenses, phone (so I can write lots of notes and keep track of my to do list/calendar), good looking walking shoes, bicycle with helmet, fruit, alone time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Too many things like analyzing why things are good/work/don't work/how it could be better, human interaction, emotions, poems, stories, art, furniture, design, fashion, the future.

How this profile could not possibly describe who I am or you are.

How we have no idea what we want even though we may think we do.

Emotion vs. logic.

The rational and irrational mind.

How to simplify.

How to be happy.

I can't turn off my mind
On a typical Friday night I am
Never going to go a bar in Manhattan if I can help it, but instead seeing what's going on in Brooklyn. I'm usually on my bike going/coming from some place.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Qwask fg nwalzlzxx aww naalaaww. Yeah, I can't believe I just admitted that too.

I'm a mystery to myself. Help me help myself.

And I'm smart dumb.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're into word play and absurdity.

Independent ladies with independent thoughts. Ladies who know a lot about things I don't know anything about or a lot about stuff I know about. Ladies who can help me remember that last line/idea I just forgot. Ladies with a sense of humor for the odd, absurd, nonsensical, random... and those that can laugh at themselves and me.

Also women who'd like to bike thru the city at night.

And those who can enjoy silence as much as a good conversation.