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23 Pleasant Hill, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 26
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Open relationship
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Very femme feminist lady, GGG, switch. INFP.

I'm in a long-distance poly relationship currently. I just graduated college in May, and since nobody's given me a job yet, I live with my parents out in the suburbs. Very willing to head into the East Bay and the City.

Be aware ahead of time that I'm in a committed relationship with janturbo.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just earned a degree from my fancypants liberal arts college in New York, where I studied history and poetry. I wrote a senior thesis on Zelda Fitzgerald, whom I love and adore. I want to get her face tattooed over my face.

Also, applying for jobs in the nonprofit field.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like making things, especially purposeful things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hope they notice that my liquid eyeliner game is on point and that I have the fire and wit of a young Dorothy Parker
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I LOVE to read. Here are ten books rated 5 stars on my Goodreads list: The Good Earth by Pearl S. Buck, City of Women by Christine Stansell, Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, The Ethical Slut, Unaccustomed Earth by Jhumpa Lahiri, Age of Innocence by Edith Wharton, Beloved by Toni Morrison, Mrs. Dalloway by Virginia Woolf, One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcí­a Márquez, and The Gold Cell by Sharon Olds
+I adore the work of Pablo Neruda and Louise Gluck, among many other poets, and that of feminists Angela Davis, bell hooks, and others
I'm trying to read more women authors, but I'm running into a roadblock with female poets. Help!

T.V. staples: 30 Rock, Mad Men, Weeds, Parky Rec, New Girl, Colbert, Downton Abbs, Broad City, Jeopardy, Masters of Sex
Honestly, I love T.V. and am happy to watch a wide variety, although I can't sit through cable news or anything by Shonda Rimes.

Movies: His Girl Friday, It Happened One Night, Singin' in the Rain, My Best Girl (1927)

Music: Erykah Badu, Billie Holiday, Aretha Franklin, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Neil Young, Adele
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not sure, but coffee, weed, sex, sitcoms, cats, and exercise are my go-to tools for making myself feel good.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Race and racism, sex and sexism, crafts, poems, Zelda.

Am I the only nonmonogamous straight* girl on OkC?

*Kinsey 2
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
One of my greatest fears is that gorillas, being the most terrifying animal, will eventually gain enough intelligence to take over the world

Also, for some reason I'm really bad at Scrabble.
You should message me if
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You're gonna say something besides "Hey, what's up" or "Hello, how are you?" Please.

Additionally, I'd like to attract positive energy into my life; although I'm happy to help partners through tough times, everyday negativity is no good. If you're genuinely interested in talking to me, please be a positive, stable person.