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23 Pleasant Hill, CA Woman


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  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Open relationship
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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Very femme feminist lady, GGG, switch. INFP.

I'm smart, witty, and sweet. I excel at metaphor from the profound to the truly disgusting. I show up looking good. I suffer no fools. (I'm pretty sure learning to suffer fools would prevent me from developing high blood pressure.)

I volunteer with cats. Currently we have two kittens with neurological issues who walk like they are drunk. Is there a word for something that is sad and cute at the same time?

I graduated college last May, and since I'm in the middle of the new graduate's classic existential crisis, I live with my parents out in the suburbs. I'm working on it, though. Very willing to head into the East Bay and the City.

Currently dating multiple people, but have one particularly close San Francisco-based partner.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just earned a degree from my fancypants liberal arts college in New York, where I studied history and poetry. I wrote a senior thesis on Zelda Fitzgerald, whom I love and adore. I want to get her face tattooed over my face.

Also, figuring out what I want and need to do, according to aforementioned existential crisis.
I’m really good at
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Wouldn't you like to know.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I hope they notice that my liquid eyeliner game is on point and that I have the fire and wit of a young Dorothy Parker or an old Dorothy Zbornak
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I LOVE to read. Here are ten books rated 5 stars on my Goodreads list: The Gift by Hafiz trans. Daniel Ladinsky, The Good Earth by Pearl S. Buck, City of Women by Christine Stansell, Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, The Ethical Slut, Unaccustomed Earth by Jhumpa Lahiri, Age of Innocence by Edith Wharton, Beloved by Toni Morrison, One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcí­a Márquez, and The Gold Cell by Sharon Olds
+I adore the work of Pablo Neruda and Louise Gluck, among many other poets, and that of feminists Angela Davis, bell hooks, and others
I'm trying to read more women authors, but I'm running into a roadblock with female poets. Help!

T.V. staples: Archer, True Detective, 30 Rock, Mad Men, Parky Rec, New Girl, Broad City, Jeopardy, Masters of Sex
Honestly, I love T.V. and am happy to watch a wide variety, although I can't sit through cable news or anything by Shonda Rimes.

Movies: His Girl Friday, It Happened One Night, Singin' in the Rain, My Best Girl (1927)

Music: Erykah Badu, Billie Holiday, Aretha Franklin, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Neil Young, Adele
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not sure, but coffee, weed, sex, sitcoms, cats, and exercise are my go-to tools for making myself feel good.

Update on this: I have a sensitive stomach and can no longer drink coffee, which is very sad, but I can still do all those other things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Race and racism, sex and sexism, crafts, books, poems, Zelda.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One of my greatest fears is that gorillas, being the most terrifying animal, will eventually gain enough intelligence to take over the world

Also, for some reason I'm really bad at Scrabble.
You should message me if
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You're gonna say something besides "Hey, what's up" or "Hello, how are you?" Please.

Additionally, I'd like to attract positive energy into my life; although I'm happy to help partners through tough times, everyday negativity is no good. If you're genuinely interested in talking to me, please be a positive, stable person.