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29 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:44pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English, French, Italian, Japanese

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My self-summary
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An anachronistic, altruistic, amorous anarchist. I like big books and I cannot lie. I like to think I'm witty, but I'm open to interpretation. I'm fascinated with how our perception shapes our experience as humans.

I aim for contrast, embracing where differences and changes empower and enlighten. I make every situation as fun as possible and look for others who do the same.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
By day, I work for the man. Not the gov't, the other omniscient and dubiously motivated tech company.

By night, I work on improving myself to write better, and then ultimately to enlighten and amuse others though what I create. I'm working on a few projects, a fiction and edutational memoir series at the moment. The latter has to do with the fact that I am discovering ways I can learn forever (which I think would be almost as good as living forever... depends on who you ask though and which context.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding a light-side and then pointing out the darker edges. Customizing cupcakes. Poking holes and then helping to patch them up to be even stronger.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I seem shy until I blurt out something ridiculous or surprisingly insightful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music like: Green Day, Kendrick Lamar, Lonely Island, Death Cab for Cutie, We are Scientists, the Fugees, the Arctic Monkeys, the Beatles, Garbage, Fiona Apple, Freelance Whales, Owl City, Rodrigo y Gabriella, Snow Patrol, Beethoven, Kid Cudi, Ludo, the Kooks, Radiohead, tb+2.

(*Special category for NPR: Wait, Wait Don't Tell Me)

Books you will find in my bookshelf include: Great Expectations, V for Vendetta, Annotated Phantom Tollbooth, Alice in Wonderland, and books by Demitri Martin, Bill Bryson, John McWhorter, Dickens, Poe, and a variety of sketch books half filled.

Fave movies are from the Coen Brothers, and again: V for Vendetta.
Foodie alert!: I love eating and cooking. I have a foodblog I go back and forth to, along with trying to take more macro pics of my successes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, language, heat, satisfaction, joy, fresh air.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why we are here and doing what we're doing. Sociodarwinism and how intellect ought to be able to rise above it but seemingly can't. What makes people tick, or make any other sound for that matter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out or at a party with friends, or at home reveling in the quiet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I adore a good human growl.
You should message me if
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You are open minded. You know and focus on the growth mindset. You're aware of the negatives, but you use them to improve the positives.

You like Disney movies, points for telling me which movie is your favorite and why.

You have done something feminine and feel completely masculine in doing so (pink drinks, girl deodorant, purple shirts; the contrast brings out your strengths, I promise.)

You like sushi, fancy cheeses, and or cupcakes.

You are looking for more than just a good lay. You won't make me carry your end of the conversation. You are passionate and well informed. Something I wrote made you smile. You have a book I simply must read or a new album that would be great for my run.

I didn't lose you completely. You're wearing a shirt in your main profile picture.