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23 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–25
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 17
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Coder, writer, and artist.

I'm a slow thinker. My humor is drier than Burning Man. Soft-spoken and direct. I like travel, writing, intersectionality, and binging on Goodreads 1-star reviews.
What I’m doing with my life
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Coding for a company in Greenpoint. Outdoors in the summer, a burrito in the winter. Traveling as much as possible.

Working on novels and comics. Exercising my right to look less like a twig each month. Writing articles. I still get heartfelt emails for one of them 3 years later.

Learning dance.

Learning piano.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Becoming good at the thing I'm worst at. So far it's worked for equestrianism, piano, and learning from my own mistakes.

I enjoy playing with structure: novels, formal talks, comics.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This list never was meant to be an exhaustive list.

BOOKS: Me Before You • Harry Potter • Scott Pilgrim • Neil Gaiman • A reread of Calvin & Hobbes gets better each time • oh, just talk to me about my favorite books.

MOVIES: Big Fish • Miyazaki • Pixar/Disney • Star Wars • Her • The King's Speech • Any Linklater

TV: Breaking Bad • Veronica Mars • Doctor Who • Buffy • Any nerdy show is a good bet.

FOOD: Banana bread • miso soup • steamed/teriyaki salmon • burritos • shawarma • guacamole • sometimes I make my own.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Art: Everyone injects their own meaning to life. This is mine.
2. New book smells.
3. A connection. Eye-contact. Physical touch.
4. Being close to a body of water, but not in it.
5. A good dad joke.
6. The moment I read an acquaintance's letter after his passing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Systemic biases.

Nature and living in it. The movie Tarzan in Manhattan is a documentary about my life.

The next lifetime.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You can't tell over the internet (and, occasionally, off the internet), but I'm deaf. Ironically, I'm good at actually communicating.
You should message me if
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You're empathetic and try to improve yourself. You're vulnerable, honest, and kind. And if you read the previous sentences and thought, “I value those, too.”