We are the authors, the directors, the executive producers of our life stories. Our success in it tends to be directly proportional to our decision making process. May we choose wisely and happily. We are the weavers.
I believe that conflict is inevitable in any type of relationship really (unless one simply has no spine at all). Here's the thing: Conflict and its resolution is healthy! It's a good thing. You have to be willing to handle it. It's an important part of learning and growing. There's an old saying that goes something like..."Love means never having to say you're sorry." I think that's complete nonsense. I think Love means just the opposite.
I think it can take six seconds to fall for someone's charm, but it takes six months to really get to know someone. Ya know, the nitty gritty. The real shit. So, go with the flow. Don't gotta rush it, yo.
Oh math, how I hold you so close to my bosom.
Shit, I'm still on this site.
In the future, dates will make out famously for at least 15 minutes!
You can do the math and over think and over analyze, but face to face time is where it's at.
I'd like to visit all the National Parks before I die. Many of them are located out west, so a west by northwestern adventure would be rad!
I'd like to travel overseas before I die too.
I'd like to hike/bike/canoe/kayak more. I'd like someone to do those activities with. (ending a sentence with a prepo - blasphomer!)
Women from this site have given me glowing reviews, saying such things as...
"also, you seem a bit more settled than I which is pretty attractive and nice. I mean, you have the job, house, cars etc.... pretty much what folks are striving for in this life-- and while I'm interested in that sort of thing, I think I'm interested in a more unrealized version of it. Like a fixer upper who rides the bus and grows veggies in the back yard and maybe has a little more unknown future thing going on."
"You're goofy. Way goofier than I thought you'd be. I'm way more serious, and we won't get along."
"Do you vote? I can't date someone that doesn't vote. I bet you're Republican. I can only date liberals." [i don't subscribe to a specific party, but she didn't let me get a word out, really.]
"I don't like guys that talk about themselves. It's sort of a thing for me." [upon my responding to a direct question datee asked me]