To me, work and relationships need not involve separate kinds of energies when the work of choice is creative/expressive work. Learning and growing better able to both understand and express strong, personal, unique, and interesting thoughts and feelings is a skill that can be used in both these areas. Because I find creative/expressive energy to be the best and most interesting kind of energy that I can enjoy from another person, I am most consistently inspired by partners where this kind of energy permeates all aspects of their life. Likewise, I feel that the best and most interesting energy that I can contribute in any context is also creative/expressive energy, so I would prefer a partner who really enjoys both seeing and receiving this kind of energy from me.
Of course physical compatibility, compatible conversational styles, and sufficient overlapping types of creative/expressive interests are also important factors. But if you are the kind of artist/aesthete who is looking for a partner who will inspire you, support you emotionally, engage both your brain and your senses, collaborate with you, and be your "artner" partner, then I would definitely like to hear from you.