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  • Ages 25-40
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My details

Last online
Today – 7:11am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

1st of all, I'm an avid but flawed parent. If you aren't cool with that then, while we might have a laugh, that's about it. - Scratch that - rewrite: "I'm too serious and anti-fun of any description."

I've been burned by getting close and giving my all, so I'm keeping some stuff so safe I'm not a good bet for a relationship... Recently confirmed (no detriment to anyone involved).

Scratch that - if anyone can't read that I'm not here for a relationship of any kind you'll recognise, please walk away. Too burned to be close - seeing someone, tried seeing another someone; now I'll put the pieces back in the box and try again. Confused, join the club of the almighty unfixable mess.

I'm passionate about the outdoors and bringing on the next generation. So, I'm hard work and you'll have to like mud, art and the edges of the human condition.

I'm a successful, work from home geek, with a full time job.

This place is odd, whomever I talk to is so jaded by guys looking for one thing - I'm not.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Beside parenting, I've spent a couple of years lecturing, volunteering and two decades working my bum off.

Travelling is on pause until the kids are old enough and I have a few close relationships which keep me stupidly active.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a little intense ... and I'm a deep tech-head.

I can't say that I'm dead good at relationships - I fall for the 'wrong type of person - a sweet spot for the beautiful, utterly smart, broken woman. So you judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Watching my lips, knowing I'm talking, but not having a "f'ing clue" what I'm on about. No idea - ask my attorney.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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List too long - into everything that isn't generic. Aldous Huxley, Iain Banks bevause they messed with my head - Roald Dahl for the kids.

Live shows, music, festivals. Check my profile under the same ID. If you think 'huh - not sure if I like this' - that's probably how I feel too.

Food - god I love food.

Fuck I'm bored of myself - can we move on please ... talk to me instead.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could do without everything at a push - I'll survive.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Exploiting technology, architecture & meta-models. Ethics and future society. Yes - blue sky and disconnected from reality ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Arguing with someone or other.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm trying very hard to reign in my desire to recalibrate people's world views.
You should message me if
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You are intent on life, quite emotionally aware and complete. My lifestyle is unconventional and tends to polarise people - come talk, I won't be offended.