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29 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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You need to move in and through the world with all the energy you can muster. Let's not be passive, let's create and build whether it's conversation or something from our hands. Let's play a game, a game that no one has ever thought of before and not be sucked in by TV unless that is our new game.

Irish born but have spent my life between New York, Ireland, Scotland; and London. Moved from a potential career in academic philosophy into sales to pay the bills. Love getting to know new people in new places, discovering new things about them, and the new things they show me about myself.

I also love to dance mainly to techno and deep house but not meat packing nonsense. Proper clubbing. I feel a need to move and have fun once music is playing, running about, making friends.

I'm also getting properly back into philosophy and thinking about the world again. A new commute has given me the time to read and start to educate myself on all the bits I missed first time around.
What I’m doing with my life
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Have lived in New York two years, love it here!

I am working on a few projects, a short text on the philosophy of travel and working towards a sommelier qualification.

Travel whenever I can, as much as I can; I was in London, Ireland, Lisbon and Vienna last year. This year is London and Iceland and a few jaunts about America. I will always keep moving, a new place to live every few years all the rest of my life I hope.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversing on life and love and filling a place with energy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Energy and laughter
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Graduate, The Usual Suspects, Dumb and Dumber, West Side Story, The Godfather, Alien, Toy Story 3.

Breaking Bad - I half jokingly call it the greatest piece of art ever created in human existence in any medium. I am only half joking.

Deep house, techno, The Velvet Underground, Radiohead, Ellen Allien, Apparat, Nicholas Jaar, Leonard Cohen, Blur, The Stone Roses, Beatles, Dylan, Modest Mouse.

Hemingway, Vonnegut, Orwell, H.G. Wells, Kipling, Camus, Wittgenstein, TS Eliot, Brecht, Beckett, Steinbeck, Proust

All food... In particular Thai food and proper organic Irish beef from our old farm (alas the cattle are all sold now)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, Family, Music, Sunlight, Dancing, Philosophy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try and think about everything. Music, philosophy, people, history, the future. I am fascinated by the connections between people and places and how travel and living in new places reveals so many secrets. But always ready to laugh about the most serious and most trivial parts of life equally.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either out in the East Village or trying to find a Warehouse in Brooklyn for a wee techno night. Also having wine with good food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will admit all things to you, but in person 😉
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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you love music, especially music to dance to at any opportunity! But also if you are open to a permanent life of travel and movement and seeing the whole world. Netflix and TV are fine and dandy on occasion but if your life revolves around it, then really what's the point in being alive? Get outside!