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22 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20-24
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Dec 19, 2014
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Working on University
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Fluently)
My self-summary
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My conception-dream* is a huge anaconda climbing over the walls to my parents' house. My parents thought I was a boy during the pregnancy because of that. Maybe cause anacondas are phallic.

*Conception dreams are a Korean thing-- it's a prophetic dream about the child's future, dreamt by the expecting mother or someone close to her.
What I’m doing with my life
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Finding excuses to travel by myself and challenging my identity. The most empowering experience I had was climbing down a very steep slope down to the bottom of a cliff somewhere in La Jolla, San Deigo. I relied only on myself and a rope. I always thought I was too physically weak to ever do that. The view at the base of the cliff was amazing.

Finding ways to integrate medicine and social justice.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Packing lightly and quickly.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My dimply, crooked smile.

My cool finds from thrifting. My favorite find is a green blazer straight from the 80s with the shoulder pads to match.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ben Howard, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Sia, Epik High, Nicki Minaj, Woodkid

Any media about the apocalypse and far-off universes. Bonus points if they're social commentaries.

A Song of Ice and Fire by George R. R. Martin
The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Cloud Atlas by David Mitchell
Emperor of All Maladies by Siddhartha Mukherjee
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. "No woman is an island"
2. Food so good it makes you want to cry. (It's happened twice in my life. One time involved a Mandarin duck dish. Another time involved a seltzer cracker.)
3. Friends to banish the still quiet of the mirror.
4. Pumpkin pies with whipped cream.
5. Cats and giggling children.
6. Weights. Gotta love that burn.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Is the world's balance being restored?"

"Do I look as good as I saw myself in the mirror this morning?"

Anatomy and Art -- "Can I doodle that person with anatomical accuracy?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Planning a takeover of the patriarchy with like-minded friends. When I'm not doing that, either going out for drinks with friends or watching TV shows and doing my nails.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love men who aren't afraid of being vulnerable.
You should message me if
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You don't have yellow fever.

You have nice eyebrows.

You love cuddling in the cautious way cats love cuddling. With lots of socialization first.

No matter what our match scores are, message me if you know and love Korean poetry. English is my most comfortable language, but there is nothing like the visceral feel of your mother language.