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21 F New York, NY

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  • Ages 20–24
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  • Who are single
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Last Online
Yesterday – 7:38pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a girl who comes with a side of cheesy jokes. Sometimes a glass of wine. *ba-bum-tss*

My first name has two characters: first character means "to accomplish," and the second character means "to become in charge". I don't know what my granddad was thinking when he gave my name to baby me-- it's a lot to live up to!

(Funnily enough, it is an accurate description of my personality. Maybe he was up to something.)
What I’m doing with my life
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Finding excuses to travel by myself and challenging my identity. The most empowering experience I had was climbing down a very steep slope down to the bottom of a cliff somewhere in La Jolla, San Deigo. I relied only on myself and a rope. I always thought I was too physically weak to ever do that. There was no-one around to help me. But there was also no-one around to stop me. The view at the base of the cliff was amazing.

Striking a balance between doing myself good and giving back to the world. I was stuck between medicine and social justice/academia for the longest time. This summer, I realized that I love medicine, but what I love more is the act of healing all aspects of a person. That's where my Women and Gender Studies major comes in handy. Medicine and social sciences are more relevant than you think-- ask me why. :>
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Traveling light so the overhead compartment won't be spilling over!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My cool finds from thrifting. My favorite find is a green blazer straight from the 80s with the shoulder pads to match.

I look like the no-nonsense type of girl but you won't be too intimidated after one of my dad jokes. And my dimply, crooked smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ben Howard, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Sia, Epik High, Nicki Minaj

Any media about the apocalypse and far-off universes. Bonus points if they're social commentaries.

A Song of Ice and Fire by George R. R. Martin
The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Cloud Atlas by David Mitchell
Emperor of All Maladies by Siddhartha Mukherjee
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. "No woman is an island"
2. Food so good it makes you want to cry. (It's happened twice in my life. One time involved a Mandarin duck dish. Another time involved a seltzer cracker.)
3. Friends to banish the still quiet of the mirror.
4. Pumpkin pies with whipped cream.
5. Cats and giggling children.
6. Free wifi.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Is the world's balance being restored?"

"Do I look as good as I saw myself in the mirror this morning?"

"How long will it take for my hair to grow out? Can I resist the temptation to chop it off again?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Planning a takeover of the patriarchy with like-minded friends. When I'm not doing that, either going out for drinks and dancing with friends or watching TV shows and doing my nails.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love men who aren't afraid of being vulnerable.
You should message me if
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You're also a little cheesy and you know it.

You love cuddling in the cautious way cats love cuddling. With lots of socialization first. Or you just love cats cuddling. Or cats.

You have nice eyebrows.

You don't have yellow fever.

No matter what our match scores are, message me if you know and love Korean poetry. English is my most comfortable language, but there is nothing like the visceral feel of your mother language.