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65 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 53–73
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 22
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I am a healthy woman both physically and emotionally. I am smart, independent, fun and adventurous. I have close friends and good relationships with them and with my family, most of whom live on the east coast. i enjoy swimming, hiking, biking, jazz, theatre, art, independent films, going to concerts, exploring new restaurants, farmers markets and traveling. I am a progressive and independent politically, socially conscious and an activist in the community. I love the ocean and mountains; arts, culture, conversation and community. I live in Oakland, CA.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am looking for companionship and a partner with whom I can enjoy some of the above-mentioned activities and also grow and develop an intimate and meaningful friendship and relationship with over time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
a lot of things. I am a good listener. I am a good friend. i am a good leader and learner. I am good at asking for what I want and need. I am good at caring about others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile. Pretty eyes. I look a lot younger than I am. I am friendly and outgoing and engage in conversation. I am a good mingler and schmoozer.I am young at heart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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To Kill a Mockingbird; Cinema Paradiso, The Big Chill, Woody Allen movies, Coen Brother movies, Jim Jarmush films, John Sayles films; Pedro Almovador films; Bruce Springsteen, straight ahead jazz musicians;female jazz vocalists like Abbey Lincoln, Nina Simone, Eva Cassidy; Reggae and 60's rock & roll; lots of Broadway dramas; South Pacific; Japanese food; Italian food; Books: The Warmth of Other Suns, books by Wally Lamb,Marge Piercy, Julia Alvarez, Philip Roth.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
listening to music particularly jazz and rock & roll, swimming in the ocean, being active in community efforts, eating lobster, spending time with good friends; walking on the beach
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
happy memories of my life; places that I want to travel to in the world; ways that communities can improve and be enhanced.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am going to a club to listen to jazz, usually SF Jazz Center, Yoshi's or The Sound Room in Oakland; hanging out with friends having dinner at one of our homes or at a restaurant; catching a movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I still prefer meeting in person to on line dating.
You should message me if
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You are interested in meeting for coffee or a glass of wine; or chatting a bit back & forth on OKC for a bit to see if we would like to meet up; or if you like to go biking or dancing first.