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sera007

42 / F / straight / Single

Charlotte, North Carolina

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am intelligent, classy, and funny.

My Self-Summary

I'm a carafe of sangria in a white zin world! I've been called intelligent, funny, charming, classy, and a pillar of strength, as well as serious, thoughtful, and complicated. I think I'm all those things plus much more than meets the eye. I'm looking for a gentleman, a pirate, a dreamer, a planner...a great guy who will rock my world and be my one and only, and I his.

I'm smart, easy-going (but I have opinions!), and like a challenge (or being challenging!). I wear many hats, but by far the most important is "Mom." Although I can be a girly girl, my son has shown me that sometimes it's just more fun to hang out with the guys. I mix a pretty good martini, can make some tasty chocolate desserts, have used a power tool or two in my time, have been known to set up a tent, and actually like to watch (and play) sports.

In search of companion who would like to curl up in front of the fireplace or campfire with me and share a hot buttered rum. A good honest man to laugh with, talk with, share dreams with, and not to mention, kisses. :-) He will appreciate everything from Chuck E. Cheese's and Pokemon to fine dining uptown. He should enjoy things like going on impromptu road trips, listening to live music, trying new foods, the smell of just-cut grass, the taste of freshly squeezed lemonade, and snuggling on the couch with me and maybe some furry companions. Cleveland Indians fans are a plus, but not a requirement. :)

What I’m doing with my life

I work at a college. I'm a mommy and spend lots of fun times with my son. I have taught Sunday school to 5-7 year olds and currently volunteer in a counseling ministry. I'm a writer and enjoy helping other people by writing articles and essays on relationship and single parenting issues.

I’m really good at

Juggling multiple priorities! Baking, especially pies and anything chocolate. Teaching. Writing.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, my smile, that I am down-to-earth.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like all kinds of fiction - have lately been getting into the Twilight books and the Sookie Stackhouse mysteries. I'm up for any kind of movie except really gory violent stuff. I loved "The Lord of the Rings" trilogy and the Star Wars movies.
I like all kinds of music...especially if you can dance or sing to it.
I'll try just about anything...but I particularly enjoy mexican, pasta, anything chocolate. :)

The six things I could never do without

My son, the beach, chocolate, my cell phone, God, Starbuck's decaf skinny mochas.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Being a good parent to my son. How to be a good partner in a successful relationship. How to be the best person I can be, and use my talents for my highest purpose.

On a typical Friday night I am

It depends. Having a movie night with my son. Or, on my own having some personal time, soaking in a bubble bath and reading a good book! Sometimes out on the town with friends!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I guess it's kind of corny, but I've always wanted to live on a farm. And I dream of someday going to Hawaii. I'd like to publish a book. And own a classic car.

You should message me if

You are honest, mature, intelligent, a gentleman, like children and animals, have a sense of humor, a fun and adventurous spirit, and are interested in a serious long-term relationship/marriage.