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30 Millbrae, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:18pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body type
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Let's get drunk and make out!

Sorry to disappoint, but I think i'm pretty much the opposite of said statement. I would rather sip on a virgin rum and coke and read a book or sip H2O and go explore the trails behind my home.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working professional in SF in the weekdays. Visiting family or friends in the South Bay on the weekends.
I’m really good at
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behaving like the Spartans of old. No, this is not like the film "300" where everybody apparently did p90x and ab rippers. I'm talking about the Spartans who gave up their seats for the old man to watch the Olympics when other Greeks did not because it was the right thing and fair thing to do. Minding my manners. Being a good listener and observer. Not being a braggart.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People say things they may not mean when they're angry. I do this, BUT feel extremely guilty afterwards. I try to own up to my mistakes and apologize. That being said, I like to listen more than I talk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything action, history, military, science fiction and fantasy is watchable and readable to me.

I'm trying to read the "Game of Thrones" books before spoiling myself with the goodness of HBO.

I like to listen to most of everything. You'll find hip hop, trip hop, and electronic music on my mp3 player. I'm pretty open to any genre since I believe any mood has its' corresponding song.

I've been mostly trying to be healthy and cook on my own. I know enough to fend for myself using raw ingredients. Pretty basic things like pan frying and steaming. When I do go out for food, I'm not too picky and eat mostly anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I like humor and laughter since it breaks down tension.

I can take things way too seriously so having fun with family or friends is good stress relief.

Utterly attached to my computer, phone and broadband internet like an unhealthy addiction.

Need time to myself to think and contemplate.

Love and intimacy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve myself to be a better person.

How to retire in 5 years.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
plotting on how to take over the world. the latest video game or sleeping in to prepare for the early Saturday morning hike.
You should message me if
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If we "are a good match" according to OKC's algorithm. Or if you want to know more.