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My self-summary Propose an edit

I value honesty and I don't want to start off our relationship on a lie. So, I have to tell you... my hair is not blue and it never was. I feel much better so please read on...:)

A test called the Myers-Briggs says I'm an ENFP. Need a translation for ENFP? The books say it means: I'm motivated by a need to understand others and myself. I value authenticity and integrity and strive for an ideal world.

ENFP's are said to be warm-spirited, helpful, accepting, compassionate, full of enthusiasm and new ideas, value freedom and autonomy, good at communicating and inspiring action, creative, spontaneous, positive, and fun-loving, individualistic, insightful, and perceptive.

ENFP's in relationships are keenly perceptive about what is going on with people, know how to establish instant rapport and make people feel comfortable, focus their attention intensely on another person and make others feel unconditionally loved, like emotional intensity and enjoy expressing a wide range of feelings, want to be special and seek approval and affirmation, can be charming and flirtatious, and relate with warmth and affection to many people.

(Wow! That makes me sound great! Let's stick with that for now.)

Further translation? I always want to be my "SERENDIPIT"ous self, which includes being:

silly

salient

subversive

shapely

spunky

spicy

sleepy

single

sagacious

sassy

stubborn

sorta(ethically) slutty

spirited

salacious

sweet n' sour

I try to understand who I am, why I do what I do and why I avoid what I avoid. I like learning about people. I want everything to be better in this world and I'm working toward this goal. I genuinely care for many people but love few. I'm fiercely independent and enjoy independent company. I like to think out loud and inventing devious plans.

Anything else you’d like to know?

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I've finished stuffing my brain and working on paying off the loans. I'm very happy to have found something interesting I can do for the rest of my life, that fits with my basic belief on human existence... We are here to love, and be loved and basically help each other through the maze of life.

That is about as sappy as I'm gonna get.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

being hopeful for others but severely realistic about myself, bantering, being childlike and seeming like I'm sweet and nice but then saying something dark and sarcastic.

How about what I'm bad at, just for fun. Making a bed, cleaning up after myself in general, time management, putting off fun until after the work is done

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

Short, glasses, long brown hair, squishy and talking kinda loud about something inappropriate

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

BOOKS

Wuthering Heights, She's Come Undone, Bless Me Ultima, The Spirit Catches You And You Fall Down, Good In Bed, In Her Shoes, Life of Pi, Where The Wild Things Are, anything erotic

MOVIES

Spirited Away, Aladdin, The Sandlot, Tommy Boy, Fight Club, Better Than Chocolate, A Knight's Tale, Land Before Time, Serenity

MUSIC

Fleming and John, GWAR, Tracy Chapman, Erasure, Buzzcocks, Ani DeFranco, Frente, Ministry, Rodrigo Y Gabriela, Susanne Vega, Dead Can Dance, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, it all depends on my mood.

FOOD

Mexican, Japanese, Chinese, Thai, Pizza, Berries, Sourdough, Cheese, BBQ

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

My little sister

My cats

Fresh cool air

Expression(verbal, non verbal, creative)

Spell check

More than six choices, because I'm so indecisive and what else would I do if I couldn't take 30 minutes to decide which towel to buy. PS. I've got great towels!

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

the kids I work with and why life has to be so hard for them and all of us, self improvement, if I can get away without doing laundry for just one more day, why one of my cats sheds so much and how to catch the cat fur tumbleweeds...

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

After removing the word typical... you might find me in with the cats and a book or movie or out with family or a friend.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I’m fond of being tucked into bed. I really did join for the tests but stayed cause I met some great people.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You think I seem interesting enough to do so

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