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serendipitygrl

47 / F / gay / Single

Portland, Oregon

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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I am enigmatic, restless, and sapiosexual.

My Self-Summary

Hmmmmm....how does one do this honestly and accurately? We all have biased perceptions of ourselves. Ask 10 different people who know me and you'll likely get 10 different answers. People aren't likely to post a laundry list of their character defects (of which I have very few...of course ;) ). I have a degree in psychology and a spent one miserable year in law school. I'm considering applying to a graduate program in psychology (just in the research stage now). I design jewelry and am an aspiring photographer. I'm liberal and open-minded. I have a dry wit and most people don't usually 'get' me. I'm perfectly imperfect. I love spoken word, especially Sister Spit- (Tiny Pink Pills and Credit Card Test). I love language and am a sucker for poets and people with extensive vocabularies. Very interested in LGBT issues and study. More to follow...

***I am NOT less well-mannered than most people (contrary to the little icon on my profile). In fact, except for laughing at inappropriate times (on occasion), I am VERY well-mannered. Additionally, I am VERY law-abiding (okay, I have gotten speeding tickets on occasion and I did have a troubled youth).

...just needed to get that off my chest ;D

What I’m doing with my life

Taking it one day at a time...

I’m really good at

Dancing, photography, jewelry design, cooking, and seeing all sides of a situation.

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile, eyes, and/or my intellect (I'm told)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Anything by David Sedaris or Augustin Burroughs. Poetry by Pablo Neruda and Rumi, The Big Lebowski (well, pretty much all Coen Bros. films), Little Miss Sunshine, When Night Is Falling, and Bound, documentaries (there's a fabulous doc film fest in Hot Springs, AR every year during the last part of October), Sarah McLachlin, Ani DiFranco, Melissa Ferrick, Natasha Bedingfield, Annie Lennox, Imogen Heap, Susan Tedeschi, Billie Holliday, Diana Krall, Norah Jones... Thai, fresh organic produce, Everything bagels slathered in REAL butter and cream cheese, V8, creme brulee, fresh gazpacho, hummus...(I'm not vegitarian but my favorite foods just happen to be meatless).

The six things I could never do without

My son, intellectual pursuits, coffee, romance, the Arts, sex

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My son, seeing the world, volunteer opportunities, what I really want to do with my life and how to get there. Oh, and how I'm going to pay for school.

On a typical Friday night I am

glad it isn't Sunday night

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Heh!

You should message me if

you think we might have something in common. I'd really like to meet some intelligent and interesting people to just go out and do things with.