The more sautrated the grey scale of my gender and sexuality gets the more frustrated I get with the options okcupid provides.

A 13 year old boy and an old man, silly and serious, a fag and a dyke, I am a walking contradiction, it's wicked fun!!!

Queer identified in both gender and sexuality, I also identify as a fag attracted to other queers, Butch/boi/ys, trans masculine guys, and genderfuckers. Queer masculinity is what does it for me. Please feel free to use pronouns as fluidly as is comfortable for you.

I am outgoing, friendly, flirtatious, and confident. Every once in a while someone will come along and make me blush and get really shy, I both love and loathe these moments.

I am committed to continuous personal growth and self exploration. The more I learn, the more I realize how much I don't know. I'm excited about that realization and excited about what it means for my future growth and potential.

Working my ass off, (sometimes on my "days off")

Practicing acceptance, and impermanence, trying to live in the moment and experience and enjoy it as it is and for what it is.

I have an amazing life that far surpasses any of my dreams and expectations. I have amazing friends who are involved in exciting projects that I get to witness and be a part of. They keep my life very exciting!

Full time, I am a body worker, healer, leader, motivator, and educator. I am very lucky to be able to support myself doing what I feel love and passion for.

Really, I'm good at pretty much anything I put the effort into.

That I really did just say that, whatever "that" happens to be at the time.

My stunning good looks and my charming wit.
...that "cute dimple" in my left cheek.

I smile a lot and laugh loud.

They want to be my best friend.

Books: I love books, I love reading, and learning. If it is important to me, chances are I will be reading about it. I also love being read to. I enjoy anything by Christopher Moore. One of my favorite books is, Dharma Punx by Noah Levine. The Anatomy Coloring Book and The Concise Book of Muscles. There's this one big blue one that has been a big part of my life, too. I am totally willing to give more information about that if you ask.

Music: Just about anything. Ok, so Polka and Mariachi aren't my favorites... There's never a time I'm not in the mood for Joan Jett.
As of late, my favorite Pandora stations have been Joe Strummer and the Mescaleros, Lucero, Coyote Grace, Mumford & Sons. I have also been enjoying quite a bit of classical recently. I also listen to some underground street punk and hardcore.

Movies: I'm a big 80's fantasy movie geek, and a fantasy movie fan in general. I love The Neverending Story, Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, Legend, Willow, The Last Unicorn, etc. Also along those lines, but I believe more 90's- The 10th Kingdom. Some other favorites include, but are not limited to Cassablanca, The Phantom of The Opera, Tank Girl, The 5th Element, Ultra Violet, Resident Evil (pretty much anything with Milla Jovovich, my one femme crush), Wristcutters, Amélie, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Top Gun, V For Vendetta, Mr. and Mrs. Smith, Crash, Secretary, Domino, True Romance, Kevin Smith movies, Chasing Amy, Mallrats, blah blah blah etc...

Dr Who, Lost Girl, Being Human, True Blood

Food: I have been vegetarian for 8 years and love to explore vegetarian cuisine. Cooking for the people I love makes me inexplicably happy. I love to feed the people who feed my soul.

My friends/family
My hot ass communities
Open and honest communication

Gender and queer theory, leather/kink, power exchange, monogamy, non monogamy, polyamory, gender, the common misconceptions about all of these topics, sex in general, celibacy, relationships, transparency, honesty, communication, spirituality, serenity, friends, family, bodies, work, business, school, success, fitness, nutrition, financial security, emotional maturity, growth, progress, politics, equality, life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness....

Working and going to the gym.

That as open as I am, I am equally reserved.

...and I love footie pajamas!

You want to go on a date, or make out, or both.