I'm a fabulous lady with a dynamic personality, who just also happens to be sexy, single and sober! I live life to the fullest and try to find gratitude in everything that comes my way. Sometimes that isn't easy. But hey...I am human, so even I don't have spiritual days everyday! I have a sweet spirit and a deep soul. I am a thinker. No, I'm not conceited...but I am pretty confident about who I am. That's part of what makes me sexy!
I'm into spiritual growth, ancient mysteries intrigue me, antique shops, thrift stores & flea markets are a passion. I love candles & things that smell nice; or sometimes just snuggling up with a good book. I love to laugh, and be silly. When you've lost the ability to do that, you've lost the light inside of you. Life is just too short to be angry & disgruntled all the time. So I seek peace & the simpler life and try to avoid conflict & drama as much as possible.
I'm into butterflies in a major way! I love cozy pajama pants, I hate the cold weather, being scared & awkward silences. I'm partial to cheese popcorn and I really hate that fuzzy stuff that gets stuck in-between your toes when you take your socks off.
I don't smoke or do drugs. I'd say I'm independent. I have my own home and an okay job, so overall I'd say I'm pretty blessed. Who would I like to meet? Well... aren't we all looking for that special someone that takes our breath away with one smile? I believe in intimacy over sex, and there is a big difference, because in my mind intimacy & sex are two different things. Intimacy is a shared closeness and communication without speaking. It's a look, a touch, a shared private joke, things that no one else knows. It's that kind of relationship that I want in my life at this point. I'm not looking to jump into bed or a quickie relationship. I'm not drawn by the physical. Women that attract me are secure in their own abilities and are not looking for someone to fill some kind of void, or jump in bed with them. They are looking for someone to share their life and time with, & who will appreciate them as an individual. My lady would love me for who I am, despite my past mistakes or experiences, and regardless of occasional bouts of insecurities.
"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty. ~Maya Angelou"
“How does one become a butterfly?" you ask,.. “You must want to fly so much that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar...

I am always seeking fulfillment in self discovery. Learning how to live life everyday without being false, shallow or insensitive to others. I try to always be a better person each day than the day before. I strive to accept change as it comes and learn from my mistakes. I seek alternatives to 'quick fixes' to find contentment. Basically, learning who I am and working on "me".
I avoid drama...love as much as I am able... laugh often...try to forgive quickly and try to be compassionate & non-judgemental as much as possible. My motto is "there but for the Grace of God go I"....

I'm good at listening. I am good at reading emotions and hearing what you aren't saying when you talk to me. I am patient and tolerant on most occasions.
I'm good at making others laugh and pretty good at being a wonderful friend.

They notice the tiny butterfly tattoo on my right hand. Then I've been told I have nice eyes too.

Music...I love music! I enjoy R & B the most, but I like pretty much most types of music. Too many favorites to list here since my tastes are pretty diversified. Music is what soothes me more often than anything. Yes, I'm one of those sappy ladies that find meaning in all the words and will cry often when a certain song strikes a chord. Yes, I admit it...I'm a hopeless romantic! I rely on my music to calm and center me and you can usually find me playing music in any situation, whether at work, in the car, or at home"
As for books....well let me just say I have three book cases! am an avid reader & I enjoy reading, when I have the time. I like Iris Johannsen, Tess Gerritsen, James Patterson, Stephen King, John Saul, and many others. Psychological thriller & suspense are among my favorites.
Food....do we have to talk about food? C'mon, look at my photos....yes, I like food! Seafood is probably my favorite, but then I like Chinese, Italian & Mexican too.

Water....Companionship....my children & grandchildren... God...Respect...Love...oh and my cell phone of course!

I like to think about stuff like what makes people tick??? Hmmmm...
If there is truly a special someone "out there" for me. Whether I will ever find a lady who can love me for who I am and accept me with past mistakes. I"ve had my share of poor choices throughout my lifetime and I won't pretend to be someone I am not. There is still "stuff" that haunts me from time to time. So yes...I spend time wondering...will I ever be loved???

Sitting at home on my computer playing games on Facebook, or maybe watching a movie.

Sorry ladies...you'd have to ask me.

You have an open mind...a deep heart, and want someone in your life who is fiercely loyal, honest and has true integrity, faithful & monogamous, and will love you deeply if a commitment is made. You wouldn't be focused on SEX or on the physical attributes of your partner. If you are sitting there now wondering.....take a risk!