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54 F Davis, CA

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Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I crave new things, but am a creature of habit.
I'm rather non-traditional, never been into the more typical life pattern people seem to choose.

I am athletic.
It's not quite an obsession, but it reduces stress and makes me feel good. I gravitate towards people who are also like this and who take care of themselves. I consistently work out at the gym and run, but I raced bikes in the past and still enjoy a nice bike ride. Please be reasonably international standards, not national ones, haha.

I like to travel.
I've been to many countries and my trips have ranged from wildlife photography expeditions in Africa and South America to following the bike routes of the pro cyclists in Italy and Belgium. I like to see new things, experience different cultures.

I am mostly non-monogamous.
Though, in the past, I’ve been in a monogamous relationship for a long period of time, I am more interested in an open relationship now. What this means to me is that, though ideally I seek a long term relationship with one person, I would also ideally like for us both to have some freedom to pursue other, more casual partners on occasion.
What I’m doing with my life
Having fun.

I recently quit my job/career as a lead biologist for a program that tracks endangered species. I'm still working a bit, but only part time. I spend even more time exercising, running, reading, photographing, playing games, and spending time with friends. I feel damn lucky.
I’m really good at
I'm reasonably good at some things: traveling, empathizing, finding solutions. Noticing things, intelligent discussion, riding a bicycle. Listening, entertaining cats, maybe some things I won’t list here.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall, lean, brown hair, friendly?

I'm easy to talk to.

I'm very honest and straightforward. And mirthful, mind you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Life of Pi, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime, Animal Dreams, Kristen Lavransdatter, The Time Traveler's Wife, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, paranormal erotic novels, photography magazines.

Life of Brian…and more.

Alternative punk, electronica, trip hop, etc. etc. I have to say that Syntax's "Bliss" is one of the all time greatest songs...the guitars, the poetry, the gotta hear it.

Weeds, Breaking Bad, Masterpiece Theater, Walking Dead, Mad Men.

Sometimes I play video games. Bastion, Kingdoms, Diablo III, ..yeah.

Food: Love it; eat it, pretty much all of it. I try to eat healthily. Love ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
connection and great communication
physical pleasure
beauty (in the world)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People…why they do the things they do

Animals…why they are so beautiful, and why humans often are so…not (or…why I perceive it this way)

Words…how powerful they are and how to perfect the art of using the right ones at the right time

Daydreaming is an important part of my existence

I love to discuss things with someone else who loves this too. Nothing like a meeting of two minds…
On a typical Friday night I am
Being an animal. Electrifying the atmosphere. Startling Kato the savannah cat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really clean and like clean, uncluttered surroundings. I take my shoes off before coming in.

I never wanted kids. I don't find many of society's conventions and traditions compelling and I don't feel marriage is necessary to formalize or recognize a long-term commitment. Although I desire a non-monogamous situation, I still see myself as a faithful person in the sense of being loyal and constant.

I am not religious and not even very spiritual, and I am not even sure what people mean when they say they are. I think I’m open-minded, fluid, honest; some of you will like talking with me very much. Others will be immediately offended.

I'm healthy and female and I love sex. A lot. Add that to my tendency to be curious about everything, and the combination adds up to kinky.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 29–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have lived some, make staying fit a priority, enjoy intelligent conversation, and you are interested. I also like it if you have opinions on things and like to express them.

I like it if you are a good communicator and don’t leave people guessing. This is hard to find.

I like it if you are younger than I am. I have a distinct preference for younger guys.

I am so not into beards. It's sad that it's a style right now. Couple days/not shaved/scruff is fine, but full-on facial hair is just not my thing.