Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Little etiquette note first:
I get a fair number of messages, like all women here. I will answer
all thoughtful ones, but not the one liners and not from distant
people, **nor from very low matches**. Thank you for
I am athletic, open-minded, and liberal. I like to find my own way.
What else...trained in science, well-read, thoughtful,
non-religious, honest, tactful, empathetic, physically active,
I also like to travel and have done a lot of it, including wildlife
photography expeditions, cycling trips, and general nature- and/or
culture-appreciation trips. I do work out a lot, and I gravitate
towards people who also take care of themselves.
When it comes to relationships, I have changed...I was in a very
long-term relationship which was mostly monogamous. But, I no
longer see that style working for me anymore. I like having
multiple partners and am fine with them having the same. I am going
to state it up front that I am kinky and like sex a lot. Please
don't use this as an excuse to write me some one-line offering of
yourself for a one/several-night stand; that's not what this is
about. I like ongoing arrangements with some depth, and I am
extremely particular about my partners.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently quit my job/career as a lead biologist for a program
that tracks endangered species. I'm still working a bit, but only
part time. I spend even more time exercising, running, reading,
photographing, playing games, and spending time with friends. I
just started learning partner dancing. I feel damn lucky.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm reasonably good at some things: traveling, empathizing, finding
solutions. Noticing things, intelligent discussion. Maybe some
things I won’t list here.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tall, lean, brown hair, friendly?
I'm easy to talk to.
I'm very honest and straightforward. And mirthful, mind you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Life of Pi, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime,
Animal Dreams, Kristen Lavransdatter, The Time Traveler's Wife,
Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Screw the Roses, Send Me the
Thorns, paranormal erotic novels, photography magazines.
Life of Brian…and more.
Alternative punk, electronica, trip hop, etc. etc.
Walking Dead, Orphan Black, Homeland, Dr. Who.
Richard Dawkins, Carl Sagan, Neil DGT, Tim Minchin, and lots
Sometimes I play video games. Bastion, Kingdoms, Diablo III,
Food: Love it; eat it, pretty much all of it. I try to eat
healthily. Love chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
connection and great communication
beauty (in the world)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People…why they do the things they do
Animals…why they are so beautiful, and why humans often are so…not
(or…why I perceive it this way)
Words…how powerful they are and how to perfect the art of using the
right ones at the right time
Daydreaming is an important part of my existence
I love to discuss things with someone else who loves this too.
Nothing like a meeting of two minds…
I think that, during the first half of my life I spent most of my
"thinking time" on my career and thinking about a lot of
pragmatic/logical topics. In the second half, I am far more
interested in the more difficult, personal, socio-sexual, ineffable
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being an animal. Electrifying the atmosphere. Attending parties.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really clean and like clean, uncluttered surroundings. I take
my shoes off before coming in.
I never wanted kids. I don't find many of society's conventions and
traditions compelling and I don't feel marriage is necessary to
formalize or recognize a long-term commitment. Although I desire a
non-monogamous situation, I still see myself as a faithful person
in the sense of being loyal and constant.
I am not religious and not even very spiritual, and I am not even
sure what people mean when they say they are. I think I’m
open-minded, fluid, honest; some of you will like talking with me
very much. Others will be immediately offended.
I'm healthy and female and I love sex. A lot. Add that to my
tendency to be curious about everything, and the combination adds
up to kinky. I am on FL. If you know what that is, you should check
me out there.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
My best matches are good communicators, curious about the world, in
touch with themselves but not overly self absorbed, non-bearded,
fit, intelligent men. If you consider yourself kinky (especially
BDSM), we may have things in common, or we may not; there is a very
broad spectrum out there. In short, I prefer men who are dominant
and prefer their women to be sexually submissive, but again, the
devil is in the details and any arrangement would require thorough
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