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55 F Davis, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–52
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:30pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Little etiquette note first:
I get a fair number of messages, like all women here. I will answer all thoughtful ones, but not the one liners and not from distant people. So, if you message me and I ignored you, it could be you live too far away, or only said "hi, how are you?", or something similar. Also, no offense, but please don't ask me to cyber with you...not gonna happen.


I'm an athletic, open-minded, liberal individual. I like to find my own way. What else...trained in science, well-read, thoughtful, non-religious, honest, tactful, empathetic, physically active, libidinous...

I am athletic.
It's not quite an obsession, but it reduces stress and makes me feel good. I gravitate towards people who are also like this and who take care of themselves. I consistently work out at the gym and run, but I raced bikes in the past and still enjoy a nice bike ride. Please be reasonably international standards, not national ones, haha.

I like to travel.
I've been to many countries and my trips have ranged from wildlife photography expeditions in Africa and South America to following the bike routes of the pro cyclists in Italy and Belgium. I like to see new things, experience different cultures.

I am mostly non-monogamous.
Though, in the past, I’ve been in a monogamous relationship for a long period of time, I am more interested in an open relationship now. What this means to me is that, though ideally I seek a long term relationship with one person, I would also like for us both to have some freedom to pursue other, more casual partners.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Having fun.

I recently quit my job/career as a lead biologist for a program that tracks endangered species. I'm still working a bit, but only part time. I spend even more time exercising, running, reading, photographing, playing games, and spending time with friends. I feel damn lucky.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm reasonably good at some things: traveling, empathizing, finding solutions. Noticing things, intelligent discussion, riding a bicycle. Listening, entertaining cats, maybe some things I won’t list here.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tall, lean, brown hair, friendly?

I'm easy to talk to.

I'm very honest and straightforward. And mirthful, mind you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Life of Pi, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime, Animal Dreams, Kristen Lavransdatter, The Time Traveler's Wife, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, paranormal erotic novels, photography magazines.

Life of Brian…and more.

Alternative punk, electronica, trip hop, etc. etc.

Weeds, Breaking Bad, Orphan Black.

Sometimes I play video games. Bastion, Kingdoms, Diablo III, ..yeah.

Food: Love it; eat it, pretty much all of it. I try to eat healthily. Love chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
connection and great communication
physical pleasure
beauty (in the world)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People…why they do the things they do

Animals…why they are so beautiful, and why humans often are so…not (or…why I perceive it this way)

Words…how powerful they are and how to perfect the art of using the right ones at the right time

Daydreaming is an important part of my existence

I love to discuss things with someone else who loves this too. Nothing like a meeting of two minds…
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being an animal. Electrifying the atmosphere. Startling Kato the savannah cat.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really clean and like clean, uncluttered surroundings. I take my shoes off before coming in.

I never wanted kids. I don't find many of society's conventions and traditions compelling and I don't feel marriage is necessary to formalize or recognize a long-term commitment. Although I desire a non-monogamous situation, I still see myself as a faithful person in the sense of being loyal and constant.

I am not religious and not even very spiritual, and I am not even sure what people mean when they say they are. I think I’m open-minded, fluid, honest; some of you will like talking with me very much. Others will be immediately offended.

I'm healthy and female and I love sex. A lot. Add that to my tendency to be curious about everything, and the combination adds up to kinky.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have lived some, make staying fit a priority, enjoy intelligent conversation, and you are interested. I also like it if you have opinions on things and like to express them.

My best matches are good communicators, curious about the world, in touch with themselves but not overly self absorbed, non-bearded, fit, intelligent men with dominant tendencies.