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sethcarter

58 / M / Straight / Seeing someone

Salem, Oregon

His Details

Last Online
Sep 4, 2010
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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NOT THAT ANYONE WILL EVEN NOTICE THIS CHANGE BEING LISTED, BUT :-) [Big Grin], I am UNAVAILABLE for anything other than being a Pen Pal or possible Platonic Activity Partner. I have found my Sweetie. Damn the luck, she has to live in the opposite corner of the Country!!!!!

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The youngest of 4 children, with 3 wiser sisters. I AM ONLY 56, BUT LOOK OLDER. I Have MS Multiple Sclerosis, but it does not have me. I I am friendly, gentle and easy to please.

I am a retired and 'recovering' lawyer, formerly a resident of New Mexico. An ENFP under theMyers-Briggstest criteria. ENFP stands for Extroverted iNtuitive Feeling Percieving. The okcupid.com site has the Myers-Briggs test. See-http://www.okcupid.com/search. A partial description of my type is set out below. It is right on target.

ENFP's delight in novelty. They are optimistic, enthusiastic, and vivacious, craving expressions of strong emotion. With a dramatic flair, they share their experiences with others, hoping to reveal some universal truth or win others over in support of a cause.

I am an intellectual, and a communicator. I am not handsome; but not that hard on the eyes either. I used to walk, swim, play tennis, racquetball, and bike ride to keep in shape.

My undergraduate degree from NMSU 1975 is in Journalism, but I opted to go to Law School, rather than go into the real world. Recently retired after practising law for 29 years.

I learned by listening to my older sisters, just how important kissing is to most women; and how much importance many women place on the first kiss. I have learned that women want to be heard, without being offered advice, at least prior to a specific request. That a woman may well be as interested in intimacy as a man, but on a different timetable, and with a vastly different attitude. That what makes men and women different from each other should be a cause for celebration, rather than a sourse of conflict. That we only have so many days on this earth; and that it is better to spend them happy, rather than sad.

In 1994 I had an essay on my child custody contest published by Newsweek Magazine. That essay also ended up being published in 3 books involving Writing Styles and Gender Issues. I have been working on a fiction book, but am now changing it to a screen play for a better chance of marketing it. Here is a very short section of the book:

When the couple finally entered the mountains east of Ruidoso, they began to enjoy the blue-green of the evergreen trees, the sapphire blue of the New Mexico skies and the white of the thunderheads that build up in the summertime over the mountains. Michobey pulled off the highway and put down the convertible’s top so they could also enjoy the smells of the mountains. The smell was of pine and oak and pinon and juniper, of old memories informing new lives. It was a smell that is alive and is particularly acute if it has been raining, or it is still raining, then the smell incorporates whiffs of saturated ground or wisps of dusty dryness being relieved.

Shortly after leaving Ruidoso the highway turned south onto the reservation. A few minutes later Michobey and Judith arrived at the village of Mescalero, the capital of the tribe. They turned right at the rodeo grounds on the north side of town and drove to the ceremonial Mesa. The mountains loom over those grounds. The focus of the grounds is a dance area in the middle. There were grandstands and an announcer’s booth on the north of the dance area. A line of tipis with tents beside them and domed arbors in front of them are the campout houses of the ceremonial girls on the south side of the ceremonial grounds. There is also a cooking arbor between the girl’s tipis and the dance area.

I am good hearted, outgoing, and thoughtful

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What I’m doing with my life
I am adjusting to retirement. From ages 15 to 55, I always either went to school, worked, or both. Everyone dreams about what they will do when they retire; but I have not really enjoyed it that much to date. Perhaps we could enjoy life together?

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I’m really good at
Communicating and being a good father. And am a better person now, than 10 years ago, and was a better person 10 years ago than I was 10 years before that. I always strive to improve my 'personhood.'

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The first things people usually notice about me
I am in a wheelchair.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS I have read everything by James Michener, Isaac Asimov, Ray Bradbury, John Grisham , P.J. O’Rourke, Scott Turow and Tony Hillerman. MOVIESMy favorite film of all time is To Kill a Mockingbird. I like the Coen’s, John Sayles and Spike Jones work. TV My current favorite TV shows are CSI: Crime Scene Investigation, 60 Minutes and Fringe. MUSIC I like Classic Rock Music and Country recorded in the last 25 years. FOODPretty much anything that does not kill and eat me first.

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The six things I could never do without
My family, my computer, my dog, writing, politics and video.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much I miss affectionate companionship. In the film The Year of Living Dangerously, the scene of Sigourney Weaver kissing and grabbing on Mel Gibson while he was trying to drive, is one of the most exciting things to me on film. I am not all that big into fantesy, but THAT ONE is pretty good.

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On a typical Friday night I am
At home watching a movie, on the computer, or writing or reading. DAMNIT!

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I actually enjoyed reading Harold Robbins in the ‘70s.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, activity partners
You should message me if
If you would like to spend some time with an agreeable, intelligent, conversant, respectful, knowledgable, and well mannered gentleman. Not really that many of us here, or at least so I have been told. ;-)

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