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sethscape

35 / M / straight / Single

Portland, Oregon

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am laid back, confident, and sentimental.

My Self-Summary

I like myself but am also very accepting of others. I am comfortable in my own skin and am looking for someone who is comfortable being themselves. I like people who are open, honest, and friendly. I believe one of the greatest things is to be loved for who we are.

I'm pretty laid back. I tend to be passionate about the little things. I enjoy my senses and am pleased by things like good food, a comfy chair, a stary night, and music that makes me want to dance. I like to think and stimulate my mind, but I can also be pretty sentimental. I like fond memories and sappy movies.

People are important to me. I love my friends and tend to be very loyal. I do enjoy spending time by myself, but I believe the relationships we have are one of the most important things in life.

For the most part I am very happy with my life. I love my job. I have wonderful friends who care about me. I have a handful of hobbies that I enjoy. But I thought it might be interesting to reach outside my normal social circles a bit. See who is out there. Maybe find someone to share some experiences with. I'd love to get to know you and see life through your eyes, discover the things that make you smile.

What I’m doing with my life

What I really want is to enjoy myself, and to help others I care about to do the same. Sometimes that means reading a book by myself. Sometimes that means going on an adventure with friends or a loved one.

I am a manager at a bookstore, which I love. I enjoy books, like the people I work with, and am good at what I do. I've worked there for five years now, and it's my favorite Job I've ever had.

I like to read books, watch movies, go for walks, and play disc golf. I've been taking swing dance lessons and like to go dancing sometimes. I enjoy having friends over for dinner or a board game night. Or finding unusual events to attend.

I’m really good at

Board games. I win alot. Here's a secret. Sometimes I'll throw a game so people will want to keep playing with me. I'm also very good at my job. And I'm a halfway decent cook. I also like to think I'm a good friend.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm comfortable to be around. I'm a very accepting of people and enjoy getting to know them. I like to find out what they are passionate about and what there quirks are. It's the quirks that really make them endearing.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I read a pretty wide variety of stuff. I like the existentialists, Neil Gaiman, Scott Pilgrim, pop physics, Chuck Palahniuk, Tim O'brien, Alan Moore, Walt Whitman, and Robert Frost.

Movies: Awkward sentimental comedies (Juno, Lost in Translation, etc).

Music: Johnny Cash, Elvis, Prince, Violent Femmes, Jolie Holland, oldies, really oldies (swingy stuff from around the 20s)

Food: Cheese

The six things I could never do without

my big blue comfy reading chair
my computer
the moon
smiles
music that makes you want to dance
hot showers

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the meaning of life
what makes people tick
fun things to do

On a typical Friday night I am

I work retail, so Friday isn't that much different from any other night ot me. Sometimes I'll stay home and read a book. Sometimes I'll get together with friends at a pub or for a movie or game night. Monday is actually my Friday. On Monday nights I have swing dance lessons.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I never saw the original star wars on the big screen becuase I was only four when it came out. But when it was rereleased a few years ago I went to see it in the theater. At the end, when they were all recieving their medals, I was so proud of them I cried.

You should message me if

You want to meet someone who you can be yourself with. I want to know the things that make you unique. I want to laugh at life and be able to say "remember when". I want to go for walks with you and dream. I want to have tea parties where we wear funny hats. I want to cuddle and watch movies. I want to be happy and sad and awkward and feel like the world belongs to us. I'm quite practical, but I'm also very romantic. If you want to meet someone you can be silly or serious or anything with then you should message me.