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38 M Tampa, FL

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  • Ages 21–41
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:47pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Dropped out of two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Ex music blog editor of 10 years. Founded two sites you probably never heard of (Buzzgrinder and Noise Creep). Huge Internet nerd, metal head, friend of cats, and coffee drinker.

Nomad since late 2010 when I left NYC with my bike and a bag. Still traveling all over the US, couch surfing, overnight buses.

Introverted, but I can be social in small doses. No packed bars, don't really do shows anymore. Festivals? Noooo. But quiet hangs with a group of good folks on porches or living rooms? Sign me up.
@sethw on Twitter
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I run @skulltoaster - nerdy metal trivia on Twitter.

Webmaster for Atom Splitter PR, Adrenaline PR.

Email marketing for Artists & Fleas (Brooklyn, NY)

News writer for Metal Insider.

Interview transcriptions for writers.

Traveling. I was in Philadelphia in August. Now in Richmond, VA. Atlanta, GA next.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Baking cookies, biking, hiking, long walks in woods or cities, exploring, drawing robots, Twitter (@sethw) and other Internet things, making coffee, long distance bus travel (my record is 27 hours), sleeping anywhere, eating like I'm a teenager, playing bass (since 1991).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The beard. Sometimes the dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Big into metal (hair metal, doom, stoner, sludge, death), grunge, math-rock, rock, Tron-soundtrack, and as a bass player into Primus / Victor Wooten

Parks and Rec, Community

Breakfast foods are my favorite, and pizza, coffee, cookies, chocolate, Mexican food, Indian food, and pizza. Wait, did I mention pizza?

I enjoy magazines like Fast Company, Monocle, Decibel, Thrasher and any BMX magazine.

I just read Austin Kleon's 'Show Your Work.' My fave is the Star Wars book, 'Death Star.'

Saw the Lego movie recently. Loved it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Good coffee.
2. Food. I get grouchy without it.
3. Shoes. I hate being barefoot.
4. Friends.
5. Sleep / alone time. I can be a bit of an introvert.
6. Internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"This might not work." - Seth Godin
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Alone, writing, and drinking coffee.
Or out with friends in an unfamiliar city eating cheap tacos.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm divorced (since 2008).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to walk around your city, eat pizza, stroll along the river.

You're cool with record stores and book stores over bars and clubs.

Mostly looking to make new friends here on OKC. I travel too much for anything long-term.

That said, I'm open to falling madly in love, buying matching BMX bikes, and settling down in a tiny home in a vacant city lot or cabin in the woods.