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38 Stroudsburg, PA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 22
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Dropped out of two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Ex music blog editor of 10 years. Founded two sites you probably never heard of (Buzzgrinder and Noise Creep). Internet nerd, metal head, friend of cats, and coffee drinker.

Nomad since late 2010 when I left NYC with my bike and a bag. I biked across NJ and most of PA. Then I bought a bike bag and started traveling by bus between cities. Biked in OH, KY, TN, GA, AL, NOLA, TX, OK, FL, NC, SC, VA, RI, MA, ME in about a year before getting injured. I'm still traveling all over the US, though, just without a bike. Lots of visiting friends and couch surfing.

Fuck cops, and fuck any sexist / racist / disability jokes. Nope.
@sethw on Twitter
What I’m doing with my life
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I write metal trivia (

Webmaster for Atom Splitter PR, Adrenaline PR.

Email marketing for Artists & Fleas in Brooklyn, NY

News writer for Metal Insider.

Interview transcriptions for writers.

Continually seeking what's next.

In Philadelphia at the moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Baking cookies, biking, hiking, long walks in woods or cities, exploring, drawing robots, Twitter (@sethw) and other Internet things, making coffee, long distance bus travel (my record is 27 hours), sleeping anywhere, eating like I'm a teenager, playing bass (since 1991).
The first things people usually notice about me
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The beard. Sometimes the dimples. Glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Very much into metal (hair, doom, stoner, sludge, technical death), grunge, math-rock, rock, Tron-soundtrack, and as a bass player into Primus / Victor Wooten - but I am sooo not a music snob. Not a music elitist at all. If you say you like metal but "OMG can't name the first five albums from all of the BIG FOUR in order" I don't give a shit.

Breakfast foods are my favorite, and pizza, coffee, cookies, chocolate, Mexican food, Indian food, and pizza. Pizza.

Magazines: Monocle, Decibel, Thrasher, BMX magazine, Offscreen Mag, The Great Discontent

Star Wars, 'Death Star.'

Ask me if I've seen a movie. I'll probably say nope. Yes, I'm that guy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, coffee, snacks, Internet, six hours of sleep, and at the least one middle finger.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"This might not work." - Seth Godin
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home writing metal trivia for the next week, listening to Overkill, and snacking.

Out with friends in a new city eating cheap food.

I'm a total hermit, most of the time. Would rather stay in and listen to music / play board games / video games than visit a loud bar filled with amateur hour bullshitery.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Divorced (since 2008).
You should message me if
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You're cool with record shops and book stores over bars and fancy restaurants.

You're looking to swap stories of adventure, fear, and/or learning over coffee, or on a hike, or sitting next to a river.

You've ever driven more than 3+ hours to see a band you love.

You'd rather stay in and make a meal together while listening to good music.