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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 4
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has kids and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am good company, and easy going. I have a poetic and philosophical turn of mind, and am widely read and traveled. My friends consider me kind, funny, and passionate. And loyal, very loyal. I have an edge- very keen analytically, self-aware, comfortable with things being open ended, and a lot of stamina and energy. I am quite fit; health is important to me.

I enjoy discussing music and art, literature, history, psychology, and religion. I am a very good listener. We could go for dinner, drinks, or go for hikes, or go to museums. Or walk around town. Rarely bored, I am up for most anything that isn't hackish or pointlessly vulgar.
I am separated, and my former partner and I are good friends. My sons, who are away at school, and my work, are my priority, but i have time for fun, for sure.

What am I looking for? I am affectionate and honest and would love to spend time with someone who appreciates an complex companion but easy going. I am open to any sort of dating.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love my work, my teenaged boys, and my friends. Life is good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think very well, both in terms of analysis and intuition. I am patient, and reliable. I read like lightning. I know a lot; I have lived a lot.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Intense blue eyes, and strong presence. At least that is what I am told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My entertainments are always changing: A lot of classical, some underground rock. Reading: chinese poetry from the 8th to 12th centuries. Philosophy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dylan's Basement Tapes, work I love, wine, old friends, my martial arts practice, the cabbage family and my sons.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The perplexities of Chinese Zen literature, how people experience themselves, and the paradoxes of effort and commitment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking and eating with friends. If alone, I will be reading, writing, and going to sleep early.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask me. I am interested as well...
You should message me if
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you like deep everything, and fun.