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51 Yorktown Heights, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 18
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and wants more
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I leap tall buildings in a single bound. I collect Nobel prizes like boys collect baseball cards. I swim the English Channel for lazy weekend relaxation. I stop bullets with my bare hands. And I have a very nice bridge I would like to sell you.

I make music and love silence, stay home and wander broadly. I am drawn to very smart women who are creative, feminine, independent, warm, and communicative; who laugh easily, and who feel awestruck (at least sometimes) by the majesty of the world: a craggy hilltop in the fog; the squeak and sweat of street ball; a flooded river and a bright kayak; a long road and an old car; smells of whiskey and leather; lions at night; my children’s faces; a garage with loud guitars; busted-up industrial buildings; dusty walking shoes; the steps to your apartment.
What I’m doing with my life
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Family, friends, day job (teaching creative writing), night job (music--writing/producing), walking, thinking, laughing, making trouble

I have also directed Shakespeare and worked in Africa. I love both and will go back to them when I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting out into the world
Getting to the bottom of things
Getting the gig
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My invisibility cloak.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food & drink: Indian, Mexican, Mediterranean, Moroccan

Prose: The Master and Margarita, JG Ballard stories. Also Kundera, Marquez, LeCarre, Coetze, Chekhov, Saramago, Dostoevsky.

Poetry: Wallace Stevens, Theodore Roethke, Elizabeth Bishop, Seamus Heaney, John Keats.

Music: Modest Mouse, Radiohead, Gomez, Dexter Gordon, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, The Dresden Dolls, Astor Piazzolla, avant jazz, Mount Eerie, Nirvana, Miles Davis, Astrud Gilberto, Velvet Underground, Bright Eyes, Beck...

Movies & TV: House of Cards, Dallas Buyers' Club, The Wire, Rashomon, Blow Up, Pan's Labyrinth, Being John Malkovich, American Beauty, Archer, Louie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
wind, trees, sunlight, darkness
music equipment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Reading on the couch with my son
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hearing music, making music, binge watching netflix, walking in the mist.
You should message me if
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You have a sharp mind, a passionate soul, and a poet's heart.