Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


46 M Oklahoma City, OK

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 36–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly other
Atheism, and very serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My profile is in dire need of an overhaul. With all the weight I've lost (80 pounds and 50 to go), as well as other changes, I need to revisit all this. My pictures are also not very representative. If you're at all interested, watch this space for updates...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making myself over. The last year has been quite a journey and I've gone through some tremendous changes. It hasn't all gone exactly as I'd like but I like to think that I'm constantly correcting my course and getting where I need to be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tech. Seriously. If I can't fix your laptop or smart phone, it's either not broken or so old you'd be much better off replacing it. I am a hardcore technophile and tinkerer and I've got several projects I'm thinking about or working on at any given time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Most of the books I read are science fiction or non-fiction history but I still want to explore more of the classics I never made time to read before, like Hemingway and Steinbeck.
Any character or story driven movie will usually hold my interest but if it's nothing more than a gore-fest or non-stop explosions, I'll get bored pretty quickly.
I despise reality television. I really like good documentaries series best, like Cosmos, Nova, or Frontline.
Mostly Classic/Progressive/Punk Rock but I have jazz and classical oriented play lists, too.

OK, food. I love food. I also have severe problems with food, as in eating too much of the wrong stuff. I've spent nearly all of 2014 rectifying this and I have sworn off all the really good stuff for the most part, like desserts, bread, potatoes, and beer. I might occasionally have a beer or two with friends (maybe three or six if it's a really good time) and even an occasional slice of pizza (once a month or less) but most days are a carbohydrate wasteland for me. I've lost almost eighty pounds in eight months so it has been worthwhile.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet Access
Smartphone (it's my clock, calendar, and ToDo list, as well as a communication device)
Reliable transportation
A quiet place to think
Everything else is negotiable
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sailing around the world. Seriously. Want to come along?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
For the most part, my Fridays resemble every other day of the week. I'd like to find someone to make changing that a priority.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to be a Republican. I got better.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're at all interested in getting to know me. I'm often pretty reserved and I'm slow to make the first move. I'm pretty good at convincing myself that you won't be interested in me and that I shouldn't bother you.