Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think of myself as intuitive, intelligent, imaginative,
optimistic, intense, playful, and funny. I’m passionate and sensual
and I consider myself pretty wise about a number of things...
Love being active as much as I love being chill and totally
relaxed. I'm pretty balanced in getting out in the world and being
successful while still finding time to be introspective.
I'm a very affectionate guy...love to hug and cuddle... and always
open to the mystery of love and sex.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Been working as an architect designing residences since college and
still loving it… but slowly starting a second career doing
I love to dance, do yoga, meditate, massage, work out, go hiking,
traveling, cook healthy food and spend time with friends.
My profile name, Sexdancer, (aka MaTandhir) is all about a movement
practice I do that combines dance, massage and sex. It can get
pretty hot and erotic, yet it's equally creative, great exercise
and an awesome meditation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and sharing with my heart and body. Time spent making
love is one of the sweetest things in life. Most fun in a body!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I do read, and go to movies, theater and concerts...all in a pretty
wide spectrum. Much of my reading lately is on spirituality....
reflecting on the wisdom of some very smart souls. I'm always
listening to music and appreciate most of what's out there with a
preference for indie efforts. Love Asian food. Not much into TV but
do record and watch a few gems,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
passionate connected sex
being in nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my work, the nature of reality (no kidding) and sex....
I do a lot of online workshops dealing with conscious evolution and
they keep me pondering the quantum nature of our universe and how
there is so much more to life than what we can see.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
there's never a typical Friday night....but a good one would be
cuddled up with a sweet sexy man, having an intense, honest
connected conversation and exploring ways to pleasure one
Not so good one....mindlessly taking way too many OKcupid tests.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love outdoor sex. Your beach or mine?
And....if we meet and we don't want to jump each others bones
pretty damn quick....it might not be a match. Chemistry does matter
whatever OKcupid compatibility percentages we've got going for
If we're not both plugged into our bodies....the dance can never be
ecstatic. It's an ideal for sure....but it's one I know is
You should message me if
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You desire to be deeply and passionately kissed.
You have an open heart and mind and a willingness to make it matter
if the chemistry and consciousness are a match.
You're an active, attractive, aware guy who knows that the world is
evolving in awesome ways and you're enthusiastically on board for
the fun of it.
Who are you looking for?
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