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  • Ages 26–42
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My self-summary
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I'm in a transition stage now - working as a bartender and getting my business doing calligraphy off the ground. So it's a pretty hectic schedule, and I'm hoping to meet someone who is equally driven, finding their passion, and willing to try to juggle schedules so we can have some quality time.

I was raised in Utah and all my family still live there. I'm close to them and see them as often as possible, but Mormon country is pretty alien to me and I just can't live there. So if you take your religion pretty seriously - whatever faith - we probably aren't a match.

Politically I'm middle of the road liberal. But not in a strident way - more in a knee-jerk, let's have a glass of wine and talk about it way. But if you think our current president is a Socialist Muslim from Kenya, we won't get along.

I'm fit and physically active, try to hit the gym regularly and hike regularly. I hope you keep yourself fit as well, in whatever way rocks your boat.

Me? I'm your better than average bear - nice looking, articulate, good sense of humor, tolerant, always open the door for you, and not a mean bone in my body. Hoping to find someone who is the same. I'm all for a good looking woman, but at this point in my life I've learned that a sense of style, humor, and self is even sexier.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to have a much fun as possible, while doing the responsible thing and getting myself through school. I paint - I'm an artsy type, thus the degree in graphic design. I am outside a lot. I go hiking regularly, and I've recently taken up yoga. Occasionally I like to hang out with friends, doing something low key. I am not into the club scene - been there, done that, and I find it a bore.
I’m really good at
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Art. I'm a graffiti artist and have had a few commissions. Don't feel bad if you're not sure what that is.

I'm a decent cook, pretty handy at most things. And have an embarrassingly thorough knowledge of music - yes, I own a lot of records. I realize most girls find that as interesting as stamp collecting so I won't bore you with the details.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not sure.. people notice that I have a nice, laid back vibe. And I get a lot of comments on my blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books.. One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest, Malcolm X, 1984, Stephen King, Hunter S. Thompson, etc.
Movies.. No Country For Old Men, The Dark Knight, The Shining, etc.
As for music, I wouldn't know where to start. I listen to a lot of different types of music, from hip-hop to rock and jazz.
Food.. I eat very healthy 90% of the time. I love sushi. I'm a decent cook, but I could learn a lot more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My health, music, oxygen, good food, paint, my bed , and.. my family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future, art, sex, being a better person, time management (exciting, I know).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. I work in the restaurant business, so weekend nights are the busiest for me. On any other night I could be doing any number of fun things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get a little teary when I hear Johnny Cash's "Hurt." Shhhhhh, don't tell anyone. You'll ruin my rep.
You should message me if
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You actually want to meet someone in the real world (that means away fom your computer) and not just make a new pen pal, texting buddy or some other superficial time wasting BS to stroke your ego.

If you think the term "cisgender" is idiotic and unnecessary. This dingbat girl in her profile wrote under this section "if you're not a cisgender white male". Am I supposed to be ashamed of being a straight white man? Okay, whatever, white girl. I think you're taking this feminism thing a little too far.
If you actually read all this. Or if you read in general.