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33 San Mateo, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:16am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Long Story Short: I'm a nerdy business professional. (ISFJ)

Long Story Less Short: After living my first 24 years in Minnesota I moved out to the west coast (Los Angeles) to pursue work. I found a job as a TV/movie critic for an online publication, and worked there for seven years. A few years ago the job promoted me up to San Francisco, and I spent too much time working and not enough taking in SF culture. Recently I just transitioned out of a great job making sports video games, to a major tech company which will remain nameless. With my new hours am finally starting to feel like I'm at home in the city... which has led me to look for someone to join me taking in the sights.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I tend to spend a lot of time at work, but I've recently been trying to adhere to a 9 to 5 schedule so that I can make more time for the gym, socializing, road trips, watching movies and TV, reading books, writing, and photography during hikes around the Bay.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being the guy you talk to when you're having a problem, my work, photography, giving advice at the gym, suggesting the right movie to watch, and making my friends laugh (although you'd never get it from this mundane profile).

What I'm really not good at: Creating an OKCupid profile.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm either smiling or laughing. If you're not, I ask why not? Maybe you need to spend more time with somebody like me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book: No real favorite, I tend to like all books I've read pretty equally. But the last couple books I read were American Gods, Good Omens, Brave New World, The Great Gatsby, The Hunger Games Trilogy, the Song of Ice and Fire books, Gone Girl, and Asterios Polyp. Currently I'm working my way through Snow Crash.

Movie: Godfather, Casablanca, Singin' in the Rain, Die Hard, Rocky, Rushmore, Jurassic Park, Star Wars, Indiana Jones, Once Upon a Time in the West, and South Park. Favorite movie I've seen recently movie was Her. But when it comes to movies I could watch over and over again, I'd have to say The Princess Bride.

TV Show: Daily Show, Last Week Tonight with John Oliver, Game of Thrones, Archer, Parks and Rec, Veep, Hannibal, Mad Men, Louie, Justified, Venture Bros., The Flash/Arrow, Sherlock, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Battlestar Galactica, Arrested Development, and Pardon the Interruption.

Music: I listen to just about everything except modern country. My favorite albums over the past couple years though are "Random Access Memories" by Daft Punk, "...Like Clockwork" by Queens of the Stone Age, "The Heist" by Macklemore & Ryan Lewis, and "Dear Science" by TV on the Radio.

Food: Sushi, Chinese, and Indian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family and friends are the most important things in my life. However, I also couldn't do without good conversation, sitting in my back yard with a interesting book, catching up on news on my iPhone/iPad, and finishing up my work days with a rigorous workout at the gym.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
As a big sports fan, am I traitor for no longer following the Vikings, Timberwolves, Twins and Wild, but changing my alliance to the 49ers, Warriors, Giants and Sharks? On a related note, go Warriors!

Also, what should I do for my next vacation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dining at a good restaurant, chatting over a drink. Going to the theater if a decent movie came out that week. Or, after a tough week I'll tend to stay in and catch up on the TV shows on my DVR to decompress.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had something here... I pulled it as it was the only thing I got messages about. That said, if you want to know what it is, start up a conversation, I'm an open book.
You should message me if
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You're looking for somebody to talk with, laugh with, and spend your time with, who knows how to balance his silly and sarcastic wit with his laid back serious side.

Also, if you can help teach me how to use my new DSLR camera that'd be a plus.