Took a break being a professor, back to my old, more steady job but I will restart my teaching career once I save some money, possibly publish something (web textbook), and after I get some art work/ music done.
I have also took up gourmet cooking. Obsessed with cookbooks, current favorite is Alain Ducasse's , "Nature." Also obsessed with fancy kitchenware. Love having dinner parties and am now part of a dinner party crew.
I am not as kinky as my questionaire proports me to be. I have a traditional hard working family kind of man side of me that my open minded answers do not convey.
I am open to marriage and kids. I am very open to poly and open relationships. I have experienced some in the past with mixed results. I do think they can work with plenty of communication, respect and love.
And for your entertainment, http://www.buzzfeed.com/mattbellassai/the-creepiest-cats-you-meet-on-okcupid
Below is my the rest of my old profile, slightly edited...
I struggle between romanticism and pragmatism . I have been told that I am sweet, sensual, creative, and caring. I am an avid reader, and music listener. Films are good too. I have a house in Oakland. I am handy with tools, etc... fixer upper there. Have a big garden, art studio, a newly planted Sequoia tree, and a strange squirrel that keeps showing up. My housemates are amazing and very creative and talented. We sometimes have backyard movie nights next to the outdoor fireplace. I got my MFA in New Media. I am an adjunct professor, and was teaching experimental sound at SF State and now looking for a teaching job elsewhere.. I do video and sound installation. I compose and play music. I do a little multi media performance. I also hone my pen and ink drawing skills. I am a handy person at a health food coop. My hair is a little messy. I am constantly in awe towards the amount of talented people I know. I have shown in museums and galleries. I have been in arts residencies. I have toured throughout Europe for music. I have played in front of over 3000 people. I have produced a music an arts festival for years. I love being in love. I like to hike. I love the ocean.
I am handsome, eccentric, intelligent, and warm