First and foremost I am married to a wonderful sexy woman. We are open and looking for friends... We are deeply in love and not looking to find love elsewhere. We are no poly amorous, but poly sexual, poly friendship, whatever label that fits. We are very loving people, want to find friendships, lovers, kink partners and all of the above. We are friendly towards women (and men) who have children. We are having children as well. Open to all folks without kids as well.
The following is my original note here with some changes...
I struggle between romanticism and pragmatism . I have been told that I am sweet, sensual, creative, and caring. I am an avid reader, and music listener. Films are good too. I have a house in Oakland. I am handy with tools, etc... fixer upper there. Have a big garden, art studio, a newly planted Sequoia tree, and a strange squirrel that keeps showing up. My housemates are amazing and very creative and talented. We sometimes have backyard movie nights next to the outdoor fireplace. I got my MFA in New Media. I was an adjunct professor teaching at a local school. Considering other schools . I do video and sound installation. I compose and play music. I do a little multi media performance. I also hone my pen and ink drawing skills. I am a handy person at a health food coop. My hair is a little messy. I am constantly in awe towards the amount of talented people I know. I have shown in museums and galleries. I have been in arts residencies. I have toured throughout Europe for music. I have played in front of over 3000 people. I have produced a music an arts festival for years. I love being in love. I like to hike. I love the ocean.
I am handsome, eccentric, intelligent, and warm
What I’m doing with my life
Fixing up my house. Working a lot. Reading a lot. Trying to
establish a disciplined art and music practice. And, yes, starting
I’m really good at
Helping my friends. Building a community. Writing music. Creating
visual art. Fixing things. Producing and curating. Kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes. That I look like a cross between the Flaming Lips
singer (Wayne Coyne), Tom Waits, and Paul Rudd.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Films by...Lars Van Triers, Godard, Wes Anderson, ( I love the
Royal Tenenbaums), Woody Allen, Ingmar Bergman, I loved the films
"There Will Be Blood, Dog Day Afternoon.
Music too numerous. These days I have been listening to Die
Antwoord, Nosaj Thing, Niel Young, o.lamm, The Field, Taken by
Trees, Leafcutter John, Fever Ray, MGMT, MIA, Thom Yorke, The
Notwhist , Radiohead, and many others too numerous to
Along with the experimental stuff I still like the rock and roll
including, Black Sabbath, ACDC, Rolling Stones, etc...
Books. I am a part owner of a bookstore do I love books and the
books I like are too numerous to name as well. Just finished a
Murakami book. I like fiction and non-fiction, with a little of
science fiction thrown in. Art books as well...
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The to - do list I wrote yesterday.
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying not to go out. But get often pulled out by friends and going
to music and art shows.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Read some of my answers to the ok cupid questions. Some of them are
pretty revealing. Yikes. Oh, and i am still a bit emotional about
my last heartbreak.
You should message me if
You are looking for an open minded couple, single, (kinksters are a plus). We occasionally play alone with others but mostly we play together.My past profile stated... I am looking for an independent minded spirit but one that would want to collaborate in life, and perhaps in projects. My ultimate relationship would be an equal one much similar to the artist/ designer husband and wife team, Charles and Ray Eames. They made beautiful things together.