Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First and foremost I am married to a wonderful sexy woman. We are
open and looking for friends...
The following is my original note here with some changes...
I struggle between romanticism and pragmatism . I have been told
that I am sweet, sensual, creative, and caring. I am an avid
reader, and music listener. Films are good too. I have a house in
Oakland. I am handy with tools, etc... fixer upper there. Have a
big garden, art studio, a newly planted Sequoia tree, and a strange
squirrel that keeps showing up. My housemates are amazing and very
creative and talented. We sometimes have backyard movie nights next
to the outdoor fireplace. I got my MFA in New Media. I was an
adjunct professor teaching at a local school. Considering other
schools . I do video and sound installation. I compose and play
music. I do a little multi media performance. I also hone my pen
and ink drawing skills. I am a handy person at a health food coop.
My hair is a little messy. I am constantly in awe towards the
amount of talented people I know. I have shown in museums and
galleries. I have been in arts residencies. I have toured
throughout Europe for music. I have played in front of over 3000
people. I have produced a music an arts festival for years. I love
being in love. I like to hike. I love the ocean.
I am handsome, eccentric, intelligent, and warm
What I’m doing with my life
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Fixing up my house. Working a lot. Reading a lot. Trying to
establish a disciplined art and music practice. And, yes, starting
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping my friends. Building a community. Writing music. Creating
visual art. Fixing things. Producing and curating. Kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes. That I look like a cross between the Flaming Lips
singer (Wayne Coyne), Tom Waits, and Paul Rudd.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Films by...Lars Van Triers, Godard, Wes Anderson, ( I love the
Royal Tenenbaums), Woody Allen, Ingmar Bergman, I loved the films
"There Will Be Blood, Dog Day Afternoon.
Music too numerous. These days I have been listening to Die
Antwoord, Nosaj Thing, Niel Young, o.lamm, The Field, Taken by
Trees, Leafcutter John, Fever Ray, MGMT, MIA, Thom Yorke, The
Notwhist , Radiohead, and many others too numerous to
Along with the experimental stuff I still like the rock and roll
including, Black Sabbath, ACDC, Rolling Stones, etc...
Books. I am a part owner of a bookstore do I love books and the
books I like are too numerous to name as well. Just finished a
Murakami book. I like fiction and non-fiction, with a little of
science fiction thrown in. Art books as well...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The to - do list I wrote yesterday.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying not to go out. But get often pulled out by friends and going
to music and art shows.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Read some of my answers to the ok cupid questions. Some of them are
pretty revealing. Yikes. Oh, and i am still a bit emotional about
my last heartbreak.
You should message me if
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You are looking for an open minded couple, single, (kinksters are a
plus). We occasionally play alone with others but mostly we play
together.My past profile stated... I am looking for an independent
minded spirit but one that would want to collaborate in life, and
perhaps in projects. My ultimate relationship would be an equal one
much similar to the artist/ designer husband and wife team, Charles
and Ray Eames. They made beautiful things together.
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