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sfcitygirl199

45 / F / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 9:17pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
25 things you don’t know about me….

1. I’m often mistaken for Jodie Foster
2. I still rock a pair of size 6 jeans (4 on a good day...and today's a good day : )
3. I have a semi-wicked, irreverent sense of humor…and nothing is sacred, most of all myself.
4. I’m confident, outgoing, and comfortable in most social situations
5. Your friends will like me
6. I would much rather have experiences than things
7. My ex and I are great friends and great co-parents
8. I have two beautiful boys, 10 & 13…and they are everything I could hope for…smart, funny, loving & kind
9. I have a lively, questioning intelligence
10. Music and dancing fill my soul with joy
11. I co-own a successful consulting business
12. My favorite day would be a long walk through this beautiful city (SF), go home, clean up, go out to a cute neighborhood bistro, then some long, slow kisses in front of the fire
13. My ideal relationship would be a sensual, passionate mind soul body connection
14. I love sexy lingerie
15. I’ve recently taken up the piano....having fun learning the Beatles songbook
16. I have great emotional depth
17. Once you’re my friend, I’m as loyal as a St. Bernard
18. I hate the phrase “friends with benefits”. I want the real thing—“lovers with passion”
19. If I had to go one place (again) before I die, it would be Rome. The art, the architecture, the whole foundation of western civilization thing…I love it all.
20. I’m an ex UCLA English major—and I love anything to do with the written language
21. I make a mean Huevos Rancheros
22. I’m a great kisser
23. I love deep, intimate, intelligent, interesting conversation
24. Never say never...but I think it is highly unlikely that you will ever see a picture of me on the playa...
25. My heart is open to whatever joy is in my future

About you:
You have a warm, open, infectious smile that reaches all the way up & crinkles the corners of your eyes
You can honestly describe yourself as sexy
You approach life with infectious, unbridled enthusiasm
You live for witty banter
Dogs & kids love you
You are unflinchingly (but compassionately) honest...not just with others, but with yourself
Despite your lighthearted exterior, you are capable of a passion that sustains and grows through the years

About us:
You have a special smile that is only for me...and when you use it...I just melt
We never sweat the small stuff and rarely the big stuff...because we know that together, there's not much we can't handle
When we're out with friends & you're telling a funny story and I'm looking at you with that light in my eyes...our friends secretly wish they had what we have
We support, are grateful for, and compliment each other...not because we should, but because thats how we like to be
We love to go out exploring, but one of our favorite places is my big fluffy four poster bed on a radiant Sunday morning
What I’m doing with my life
Raising awesome kids.
Running a thriving business.
Being a great friend.
Being an active member of my community.
Trying to leave this world a little better than I found it.
I’m really good at
--Relationships, whether it be in my business, with my kids, or as a loyal friend. It's what makes me tick.
--Facing a difficult situation head on
--Being the person in your corner when the chips are down
The first things people usually notice about me
Smile & energy.

After they've known me awhile: integrity and honesty
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I tend to like a lot of classics with a little trash thrown in. Right now I'm reading Noel Coward's Collected Stories...who knew he wrote great short stories? Also on a Jack London binge...everyone knows his earlier works but his later, lesser known books show an astonishing amount of self-awareness.

Other favorite authors...Somerset Maugham, the Bronte sisters, Philip Roth, Nabokov, Frank O'Connor, Dorothy Parker. I enjoy authors who write truths about the human condition that we never knew we knew.

What's on my Ipod: Everything from total old school (Aerosmith, Tom Petty, Van Morrison) to kinda old school ( U2, Dave Matthews, Goo Goo Dolls) to somewhat current (The Script, The Fray, Linkin Park). And of course I'm a chick so Adele is on there : ) . My kids love One Republic, Pink and the Black Eyed Peas..and I have to admit I do too!
The six things I could never do without
1. My kids, family & good friends
2. Witty banter
3. Satisfying work
4. Music
5. Peet's coffee
6. Great kissing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
--How to raise my boys to be strong, loving, thoughtful & compassionate young men.
--You
--How to be a better mother, friend, co-parent, employer, and, with your help, ...lover : )
--Why the mattress tag always says "Do not remove"
On a typical Friday night I am
either hanging with my kids (love having sleepovers) or out with friends. Right now my favorite hot spot is Dosa on Fillmore...great energy, great drinks & spicy Indian food!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I took my dads car when I was 15 to go joyriding with a friend. Since I was a terrible driver, we got busted & spent the night in jail. My dad was not impressed when he came to pick us up & the cops told him we were practicing our dance moves in the jail cell.
After 400 hours of community service, I came to the conclusion that crime does not pay. Now my joyriding is limited to occasional road trips to Carmel or the Wine Country...where I (mostly) obey the speed limit.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 42–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are positive, outgoing, fun, sexy, and have great energy. Oh, and did I say funny? Gotta make me laugh. Looking for a good guy with a little bad boy thrown in. Weak spot for cute single dads.