I am currently married to the love of my life, (gotham13). We met
online and dated long distance for about a year before I moved to NYC. I was in the Army for seven years with two tours in Iraq.
We recently had a son! I'm not looking for anything but friends. I'm rarely on this site so if you message me and I don't get back right away, don't take it personally.
What I’m doing with my life
A new stay-at-home dad and going back to school soon for applied math. Those things take up most of my time. When I do have some free time I enjoy reading, programming, playing games (board games and computer games), and cooking.
I’m really good at
Singing the theme song to Duck Tails. No, wait. That's a lie- I can't sing.
The Wiggles trivia.
I make a mean pie crust and nutella cinnamon rolls.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am polite and respectable to most people about most things and I tend not to make enemies. I have the fashion sense that begs reproach (and I rather don't care though my wife has made me a lot more presentable over the years). I fidget a lot and have an incredibly low tolerance for bullshit or incompetence.
I also look about five years or more younger than I really am and hopefully it will hold out into old age. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I don't read much fiction; in fact I read almost none. Most of my books are either related to Math, Science, Engineering, or non-fiction. I have been trying to expand more, and have been reading classic horror when I have the time.
Movies: Highlander, The Shawshank redemption, Lost in translation, Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, A beautiful mind, Rules of engagement, and just about any Jackie Chan or Arnold Schwarzenegger movie (just to name a few)
Music: Heavy metal, 80's of all varieties, Country, Techno, DDR, 70's rock, and samples of most genres except Rap, Hip-Hop, and especially EMO and Punk.
Food: I've taught myself how to cook in earnest a couple years ago and I love it. I prefer new American and French food the most, but I'll eat anything that's freshly prepared and delicious. Organic, local, and seasonal foods are important to me. I especially love shopping at the farmers market.
The six things I could never do without
Air, Food, Water, The big three basics really...
My wife and son, my computer, my books, coffee, and my ability to think for myself and regard superstition with great skepticism. I'm a simple man, and my list is probably longer than it could be.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the fuck do these floors get so dirty again- I JUST cleaned them!
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting at home spending time with my family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a submissive in a BDSM
sense and I love every second of
You should message me if
If you like Math, Computer Science, Science in general, or
If you are involved in the BDSM scene or are interested in
If you have even more free time to waste than the precious few
minutes you've already wasted reading my profile.