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sfdrew

30 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jun 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a twenty-nine year old student who is passionately keen in my
chosen field of computer science, as well as an avid
freethinker and skeptic. I have was in the Army for seven years and two tours in Iraq.

I am currently married to the love of my life, Jessica. We met
online and dated long distance for about a year before I moved to NYC. We are in a D/s relationship with me being
the submissive. We are in a one-sided open relationship where she
is able to see other men but I am monogamous.

We recently had a son! I'm not looking for anything but friends. I'm rarely on this site so if you message me and I don't get back right away, don't take it personally.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in college at the City College of New York, a new dad, and a husband. Those three things take up most of my time. When I do have some free time I enjoy reading, programming, playing games (board games and computer games), and cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am polite and respectable to most people about most things and I tend not to make enemies. I have the fashion sense that begs reproach(and I rather don't care). I fidget a lot and have an incredibly low tolerance for bullshit or incompetence.

I also look about five years or more younger than I really am and hopefully it will hold out into old age. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I don't read much fiction; in fact I read almost none. Most of my books are either related to Math, Science, Engineering, or non-fiction.

Movies: Highlander, The Shawshank redemption, Lost in translation, Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, A beautiful mind, Rules of engagement, and just about any Jackie Chan or Arnold Schwarzenegger movie (just to name a few)

Music: Heavy metal, 80's of all varieties, Country, Techno, DDR, 70's rock, and samples of most genres except Rap, Hip-Hop, and especially EMO and Punk.

Food: I starting learning how to cook in earnest a couple years ago and I love it. I prefer new American and French food the most, but I'll eat anything that's freshly prepared and delicious. Organic, local, and seasonal foods are important to me. I especially love shopping at the farmers market.
The six things I could never do without
Air, Food, Water, The big three basics really...

Ok seriously?

The love of my life Jessica, my computer, my books, coffee, and my ability to think for myself and regard superstition with great skepticism. I'm a simple man, and my list is probably longer than it could be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting at home spending time with my family.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a submissive in a BDSM sense and I love every second of it.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you like Math, Computer Science, Science in general, or Engineering.

If you are involved in the BDSM scene or are interested in it.

If you have even more free time to waste than the precious few minutes you've already wasted reading my profile.