Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
An adventurous guy interested in spending time with like minded
Moved to SF from NYC seven years ago for a better quality of life.
Love exploring the majestic beauty of California and the
Technology pays the bills but, studied fine art in college which
did not prepare me for paying rent. So, initially made a living as
a graphics prostitute: Commercial photography, advertising and
design before walking away to pursue a career as a Geek.
Love to talk in person. Not so much on the phone. Physical
interaction is important. Great conversationalist and listener.
Bloody fantastic at cocktail parties. Accomplished
I have a two wheeled addiction; bicycles and motorcycles. Spin
Coach for the past 12 years.
Enjoy reading the NYT on Sundays and listen to NPR. I have Karl
Kassel's voice on my voicemail.
I am respectful, opening doors for others and I tend to say, May I,
please and thank you very much. Acutely self aware.
We interrupt this summary with a little rant: I have been on OKC
for over two years. Been on some good dates. Been on a whole bunch
of bad ones. A few lasting relationships. A lot of OMG this is so
not right. Obviously I have not found what I am looking for or I
wouldn't still be here. This is SF, the land of unconventional
relationships. The question that begs asking is what am I looking
for? The perfect Partner? Existence of this is questionable. Sex?
Sure I like sex. I am pretty good at it and I enjoy driving my
partner crazy. Children? No Children? Not an issue. Monogamous?
Non-monogamous? Bi? Poly? Traditional? Kinky? English as a second
language? Well, at this stage, there is no script. no grand plan. I
have walked off the reservation. Now back to the regularly
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in Tech. Quality control. For the last two years I worked at
a BioTech Company. Before that, a computer company. I have been in
advertising and graphic design, taught community college, sold
motorcycles, and pulled quite a few Cubanos (If you do not know,
you should ask- its a coffee thing). I have had half a dozen
careers and I probably will have a half dozen more.
I work a solid job that pays the bills, keeps me in expensive toys
and challenges me to find a work/life balance and figure out what I
am meant to do. Perhaps to write the next great american novella:
Tales of a Recovering Genius. I can see the cease and desist order
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and engaging people. Being patient and understanding.
Getting people to relax and lower their defenses. I am a kick ass
masseuse - One of my college roommates studied at the Swedish
Institute of Massage taught me almost everything I know. Picked up
a couple other interesting skills but you will have to ask.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My glasses. People mistake me for Stanley Tucci all the time.
Some people comment on my language. Words and the combinations of
them are a canvas that I never tire of painting. Friends and
colleagues think I am detail oriented and meticulous. It is really
just a mild case of OCD.
When out on a bicycle or at the gym, people tend to stare at the
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Siddartha, Neuromancer, BladeRunner, Laurence of Arabia, Princess
Bride, Finding Neverland, Ten Commandments (such great dialog!)
Doctor Who, The Blacklist, Justified (again with the dialog),
Afghan Whigs, Palms Out (rest in peace) Techno (old school Paul
Oakenfold, Armen Van).
I am into music in a big way. When you are teaching five spin
classes a week, you tend to go through a crap-ton of music. Arcade
Fire to Frank Zappa.
I am a total food snob. Love the cheap hole in the wall set your
taste buds on fire dives that may or may not be on the health
departments radar as much as the four-star can't get a reservation
without sacrificing a first born. And I cook; breakfast, lunch and
dinner. Have Wok, will travel (pretty good with a skillet as well
as open flame).
Chicago style hot dogs, NY bagel and a schmeer, Pizza you can fold,
Burma Superstar and Strawberry Pop Tarts (did you know that they
are flammable! Do NOT leave em in the toaster while showering)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Chocolate. Life is not worth living without chocolate. And coffee.
And Sticky Buns - The breakfast pastry that is.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe and everything. How 42 came to be the answer to
the ultimate question of aforementioned life, universe and
Food. Shelter. Sex. (not necessarily in that order)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Winding down. Hanging out with friends. Going to a show or OKC
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Spent 36 hours in Queens Central Booking (A fantastic story).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are interested in intelligent dialog.
Like to laugh and love and play.
If you think motorcyclists are naughty.
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