Moved to SF from NYC seven years ago for a better quality of life and I regret not making that decision a whole lot earlier. I love exploring the majestic beauty of California and the west.
Technology pays the bills but, studied fine art in college which was a fine choice even though it did not prepare me for paying rent. So, initially made a living as a graphics prostitute: Commercial photography, advertising and design before walking away to pursue a career as a Geek.
Love to talk in person. Not so much on the phone. Physical interaction is important. All modesty aside, I am a really good conversationalist. I ask a lot of questions and listen to the answers. Bloody fantastic at cocktail parties. I am an accomplished storyteller.
I have a two wheeled addiction; bicycles and motorcycles. Absolutely love to ride in the city and the country. I even coach spin classes.
Enjoy reading the NYT on Sundays and listen to NPR. I have Karl Kassel's voice on my voicemail.
I am respectful, opening doors for others and I tend to say, May I, please and thank you very much. Acutely self aware.
We interrupt this summary with a little rant: I have been on OKC for over two years. Been on some good dates. Been on a whole bunch of bad ones. A few lasting relationships. A lot of OMG this is so not right. Obviously I have not found what I am looking for or I wouldn't still be here. This is SF, the land of unconventional relationships. The question that begs asking is what am I looking for? The perfect Partner? Existence is questionable. Sex? Sure I like sex. Someone with children, someone without? Not an issue. Monogamous? Non-monogamous? Well, at this stage, there is no script. no grand plan. I have walked off the reservation. Now back to the regularly scheduled program.