Moved to SF from NYC seven years ago for a better quality of life. Love exploring the majestic beauty of California and the west.
Technology pays the bills but, studied fine art in college which did not prepare me for paying rent. So, initially made a living as a graphics prostitute: Commercial photography, advertising and design before walking away to pursue a career as a Geek.
Love to talk in person. Not so much on the phone. Physical interaction is important. Great conversationalist and listener. Bloody fantastic at cocktail parties. Accomplished storyteller.
I have a two wheeled addiction; bicycles and motorcycles. Spin Coach for the past 12 years.
Enjoy reading the NYT on Sundays and listen to NPR. I have Karl Kassel's voice on my voicemail.
I am respectful, opening doors for others and I tend to say, May I, please and thank you very much. Acutely self aware.
We interrupt this summary with a little rant: I have been on OKC for over two years. Been on some good dates. Been on a whole bunch of bad ones. A few lasting relationships. A lot of OMG this is so not right. Obviously I have not found what I am looking for or I wouldn't still be here. This is SF, the land of unconventional relationships. The question that begs asking is what am I looking for? The perfect Partner? Existence of this is questionable. Sex? Sure I like sex. I am pretty good at it and I enjoy driving my partner crazy. Children? No Children? Not an issue. Monogamous? Non-monogamous? Bi? Poly? Traditional? Kinky? English as a second language? Well, at this stage, there is no script. no grand plan. I have walked off the reservation. Now back to the regularly scheduled program.