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sfogarty

28 / M / bisexual / Available

Houston, Texas

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Judaism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am geeky, sleepy, and cuddly.

My Self-Summary

I'm a graduate student in theoretical computer science, currently residing in Houston. Being something of an introvert, I'm generally fond of board games and casual socialization, rather than going out clubs and concerts.
I am a cuddly, tactile, silly, shy, laid-back kind of person. I identify as a geek, mathematician, poly, bisexual, submissive, and slightly genderqueer.

I am increasingly involved in teaching at the university level, and hope to continue doing so when I finish my degree. I love explaining things, and will gleefully try to teach some of the math I'm doing.

I am currently in an open relationship with Sister_Bluebird, which is currently long-distance to the tune of 1200 miles or so. I hope to be moving back to the midwest (Madison-ish) after I graduate, so that this is no longer the case.

I also have a notgirlfriend: ghost_machina. She lives in a giant tea kettle.

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What I’m doing with my life

I am a grad student at Rice University in Computer Science > Theory > Formal Verification > Automata Theory > Automata on Infinite Words > Buechi Complementation. I play lots of board games and bridge.

I’m really good at

Discrete mathematics, board games, making strange electronics work together, being tactile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Book: This Alien Shore
Movie: American Beauty
Music: Dresden Dolls, Lacuna Coil
Food: Thai

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How things could be done more efficiently. Or how things work. Or how much time I save by crossing the park instead of taking the streets.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

This is something of a contradiction. If I admit it here, it is no longer private. But, personal, well... I have a stupid fear about imposing on people, to the point that I back out of nice things.