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49 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:04pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Is this where you talk about long walks on the fireplace, because I really can't be bothered.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm actually trying to work that one out. I'm separated after eight years of marriage, and, well, what now? I figure getting out and about and meeting new people is a good place to start.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
keeping cool when it's time to improvise, trivia,
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes: I've heard the words soulful, striking, cerulean, honest, humorous, communicative, blue, deep.

My fashion sense: I've had more than one person tell me they envied me for clearly not caring what anybody thought. Ironically, this isn't entirely true.

I'm the strong silent type (who won't shut up once I get to know you well enough), albeit clearly engaged and with a readily apparent sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I appreciate the finer things in life: art films, punk rock and cheap ethnic food.

I've always liked something that one of the Monty Python guys said: that the secret to their success was that they did high brow, and they did low brow, and absolutely nothing in between.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Twenty years ago, I would have agreed with LL Cool J who you know he couldn't live without his radio. But times have changed.

More recently, I would have said something about my books and my CD's, but the internet is changing all that. I do have to say that I would have a hard time living without the access to the cultural world that those things represent.

Beyond that, I don't know. And why six of them? But let me see

(2) ambient temperature above freezing and (a long way) below the boiling point of water.
(3) Oxygen. Can't forget oxygen.
(4) A ready access to carbon, hydrogen, nitrogen and various trace elements.
(5) Membership in a prosperous first world society. Fortunately, I live in Portland.
(6) Art films, punk rock and cheap ethnic food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depending on the week, I'm either at home waiting for the kids to fall asleep, or I'm the weird old guy at the Fucked Up show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I shot a man in Reno, just to watch him die.

(Actually, that wasn't me, that was Johnny Cash. However, I did live in Reno for several years, and went to high school there, and I often wished that Johnny hadn't stopped at just one man.)
You should message me if
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you're smart, funny, and have a high tolerance for ambiguity.