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sfullon21

21 / F / bisexual / Available

Wichita, Kansas

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Native American, White, Other
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Languages
English

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I am unconventional, loving, and honest.

My Self-Summary

FIRST AND FORMOST DON'T IM ME I WONT ANSWER AT ALL! i REQUIRE A MESSAGE LONGER THEN 10 BIG WORDS AND IT SHOULD NOT INCLUDE THE WORD SEX OR ELUDE TO IT AT ALL OR I'LL BLOCK YOU! I'M NOT HERE FOR FUCK BUDDIES/PLAY PARTNERS I'M HERE FOR REAL RELATIONSHIPS/FRIENDS. IF THIS MAKES ME A BITCH WELL I AM ONE! IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM I REALLY DON'T CARE AT ALL. I AM WHO I AM IF I WASN'T I WOULDN'T BE THE BEAUTIFUL INTELLIGENT WOMAN THAT I AM!!

I'm an Angel on a Stripper Pole that's the best way to put it.

I'm Tiki! Ok so to start if you're all for monogamy and it works for you great but my advice to you is stop reading now and move on to the next girl. I'm polyamorous this means I can love more then one person at a time in fact I can even be in love with multiple people. I've been in a functioning polyamorous relationship before one of the people realized it wasn't the lifestyle that she wanted and in the end we all failed. That however didn't stop me from believing that polyamory is the lifestyle for me. I am married to a wonderful man who I love dearly and he is my primary partner and will remain to be unless for unseen problems arise. This means that he will always come first but we are both free to have other relationships even have a realtionship that we have between the both of us. I also have a son with my husband and he comes before everyone and you'll have to understand those two people are the life the world sees. I'm very private about our life style because my husband is in the Air Force and I expect you to keep our lifestyle private if we were ever to get involved. Now that I've made those points and if you're still interested then please email me but email me more then just hey babe or something lame like that otherwise I will block you.

Here's a little info I think explains me pretty well: Like someone who can sleep comfortably on either side of the bed, I am equally at home with ideas and beliefs that I have held for a long time and with new ways of thinking and believing that grow out of my intellectual curiosity.

My sense of who I am and what my place is in the world around me rests on values and principles that are the solid ground I walk upon. I've tested them, they work for me, and much of the time I am content to trust them, that is, until some provocative new idea slips in from a conversation, book or some flight of my active imagination. "Hmmmm. What's this. Never thought of it before." And off I go, exploring.

Since I love to learn, I've always been teachable; I absorb new information, which means I am well-educated in things that matter to me. Sometimes my intellectual exploring will lead me back to where I started; the "next new thing" proves too shallow or impractical to me. But once in a while a new idea or belief will dislodge me from the ground I've stood upon; it is so compelling and persuasive that I step away from the tried-and-true and embrace this notion that is brand new to me.

Because I hold both solid beliefs and am open to new ideas, I am accepting of other people and other ways of thinking and believing. I am flexible enough to listen to something new and different, or something outside of my comfort zone; if it works for me, I'll take it in, and if not, I'll let it go. In this sense, I know who I am: I'm neither closed-minded nor wildly open-minded, but walk somewhere near the middle of the intellectual road.

Loving the wind
Does not mean I love the ocean less.
Each evokes a different part of me
And brings me different lessons,
And my love for them would not diminish
If I also loved the fertile forest.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a loving wife, mother to a baby boy, eventual going back to college although I really don't know what I want to do anymore, and homemaker. I also dabble in photography where I am my own model. And to point the last bit out i'm a model for photographers, painters, sketcher etc. I mostly do nude to semi-nude but since I'll be new to the area I wont know very many people so I'm looking for artists I mostly do it privately and don't really expect alot of payment just something if I have to go out of my way. If you want to see some of my work here's my deviantart and my friends as well. http://tiki1121.deviantart.com/
http://skwerel.deviantart.com/

I’m really good at

Talking to people whether it be about my life, their life, or just advice. Great with kids. Dying Hair. Pretty much being a mommy, wife and friend].

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably my ever changing hair color. Or my long legs. Or my bright blue eyes. Personality wise would be my open mind I'm willing to listen to whatever anyone has to say without judement.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love vampire lore movies or books I love it and pretty much read or watch anything with vampires. I'm pretty diverse collection of music but I'm anti-rap. Food well it's easier to write what I don't eat which includes: pork, anything out of the water and onions.

The six things I could never do without

My Son- he's my world.
My Hubby- my best friend in all the world.
LOVE!
The Boyfriend
Sex
Caffeine

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I'm going to do in the next 10 minutes lol. I'm not really a planner. I also think about my hubby and son and hopefully finding a girlfriend I can get along with.

On a typical Friday night I am

At home with my husband and son excited to start our weekend together. It's the last day of my husbands week of hard work and the last night I'm settled with mommy dutys with no break. Weekends our the best. Or I'm out with couple friends at some random party with live music drinking, dancing or just talking.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

LOOK THIS IS HERE BECAUSE IT'S TRUE IF I TOOK IT OFF I'D BE LYING AND I'M NOT A LIAR. I IN FACT DON'T LIKE LIARS OR LIES AT ALL! SO I WONT LIE HERE EVEN IF IT IS THE INTERNET AND EVERYONE ELSE DOES. I'M NOT EVERYONE! I DON'T NEED JUDGEMENT ABOUT THIS, SEX IS NATURE AND ME LIKING SEX AND ADMITTING IT DOESN'T NOT MAKE ME A SLUT IT MAKES ME HONEST, BLUNT AND HONESTLY ALOT MORE MATURE THEN THE ADVERAGE 21YR. NOW THAT I'VE SAID MY PEACE AND I DESERVE RESPECT FOR IT.

I LOVE SEX!!! Like I guess the best way to put it is that it's my drug of choice. If I can't have sex I have a ciggarette but personally I'll take sex over anything else in the world besides my family of course. I'll give you a brief history I've been masturbating since I was 9yo, the first time someone went down on me I was 12yo, lost my virginity in a 3some at 17yo, I am 20 going on 21 and I've been with 23 people!!

You should message me if

You like what you've ready about me. If you're interested in dating, or a short or long term relationship with me. Who is not judgemental of my lifestyle and is open minded about life in general. You should get along with kids since I do have a son. Also would need to be comfortable around my husband and respect our agreement with one another. Don't contact me if you're just going to try and tell that I'm wrong. This isn't your life it's mine and I should be able to live as I see put.