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sfyankee

41 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
May 16
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
At this point I have a pretty clear idea of who I am, what makes me happy and what I want out of life. I'm pretty comfortable meeting people out in the wild, but have heard (and seen) enough evidence that meeting people online can be worth a shot. Definitely pro's and con's to both, so here I am - but see this more as a supplement.

I'm more sporty than artsy, but am pretty well-rounded - I'm equally happy at a fancy benefit, museum or work event as spending a day at a sporting event, concert or something fun outside (love both Tahoe seasons, but prefer warm to cold). Basketball and some form of exercise are staples of my week, and am also resolved to teaching myself to play guitar and find more time to read and cook.

Originally from upstate NY, I lived in Boston before moving to SF in 2000. Love it here for the weather, proximity to fun getaway spots (Tahoe, Vegas, Hawaii, SoCal), the people (natives and transplants).
What I’m doing with my life
I work as a financial professional by day, caped crusader by night.

I love the flexibility that my job allows, and try to take advantage with frequent weekend trips. 2013 is shaping up well with Sundance happening in January and Australia/New Zealand (finally!) happening end of February...
I’m really good at
Listening to friends/family/clients, getting fun groups of people together, making my 2 1/2 year old nephew laugh, making good financial decisions, seeing things from other people's perspective, fun surprises, planning trips.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tough one - but I'm usually smiling which often makes people wonder exactly what it is I'm up to...it's usually good
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A very wide range on all topics:

Read:
- A mix of: WSJ, Game of Thrones, Barron's, Getting Back to Even, The Little Prince, Hot Flat & Crowded, Liar's Poker, Barbarians at the Gate, Band of Brothers, I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell, Bill Simmons' Book of Basketball, Kite Runner, Life of Pi

Movies / Shows:
- Homeland/Dexter/Californication (when in season), Anchorman, Office Space, Saving Sarah Marshall, She's Out of My League, How I Met Your Mother, Rules of Engagement, Entourage, Gangs of New York

Music:
- Huge range: Offspring, Deadmau5, Jack Johnson, GreenDay, Pearl Jam, Dirty Heads, Adele
The six things I could never do without
- Family & Friends
- Good advice
- a good workout
- the sun & a body of water
- social interaction
- quiet time (not always the same as alone time)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- people's motivations regarding relationships, money and happiness
- what's going on with my family
- how/if I'm making myself better at everything I do
- the paradox of fate versus controlling your own destiny (I happen to believe that fate plays a part, but you need to take an active role in making things happen - is being on this site evidence of that?)
On a typical Friday night I am
Wrap up work, gym, happy hour, dinner/drinks with friends
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a quality, relatively stable person and think it might be fun to hang out with someone who also (loosely) fits that description - and see what happens from there...