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58 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:47am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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OK, Internet Dating, Round 3. That's OK, because these things can take time.

Like many, I am looking for that special someone. It feels like something that I can define and is elusive all at the same time. I know what it feels like when someone is a "fit", but the particulars are often impossible to define in advance. Or at least that's what I think now that I have more experience. But my very fond hope is that the right person will eventually read this and recognize the potential between us.

I tend to gravitate towards people who have a passion for what they are doing in life. Intelligence, sensitivity, great humor are the baseline, although the particulars will make or break. Generally speaking, I probably do best with the kind of guy who thinks outside the box, as I tend to do. Especially when said box becomes claustrophobic.

My great passion in life is art: designing and fabricating metal jewelry. I did go to law school but in trying to practice found it to be a bad fit for a visual, creative (and female?) personality. So I transitioned into something artistic, but am happy for the training I got in law school -- even though I also think I should have run the other way before the end of my first year. Anyone who knew me there and at that time would agree. But anyway, here I am. I'd say "all's well that ends well" but it hasn't ended yet. All I can say is that I am much happier. And the process continues ....

Disclosure: I live in northern NJ but my heart resides in NYC. It is easy for me to drive in and I often do.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making jewelry. Connecting with friends. Continuing with therapy while questioning why I continue to deal with home ownership. Trying to find a partner who makes life even more fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am always reading a book. Right now, "Mr. Penumbra's 24 Hour Bookstore". The last one was about how an archeological dig on the island of Thira, near Crete, is probably the basis of Plato's legend of Atlantis. Before that fiction, "The Mystery of Mercy Close", starring a brilliant and gutsy female PI on some serious anti-depressants.

As for movies, I tend to like dramas, comedy and documentaries. Don't like slasher flicks or action movies aimed at young boys.

I love theatre and ballet. Also museums and travel.

I love all sorts of food and will eat pretty much every style, always aiming for moderation. And regular workouts.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet.
My friends, nach.
My cute and charming pets (a dog and a cat, right now).
My cute and charming home.
Tower fans.
Go figure.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics, the crazy divisiveness, what happened to a reasonably functional, working centrism (I have my suspicions but we can talk about it in person)? What makes people tick. New design ideas. How to keep life interesting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm willing to mix it up!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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... is that I really value privacy!
You should message me if
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... you think we might be a fit and you are serious about eventually forming a lasting monogamous relationship.

Also, won't respond to anyone without a visible profile picture. You know why. Don't pretend you don't! ;^}