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47 • M • Ferndale, MI
- Last Online
- Jan 12
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body Type
- A little extra
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Status
- Seeing Someone
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs and has cats
I have dieted down to 225 from a peak weight somewhere north of 350. I don't have a perfect body and I don't care if you do either.
movies - David Lynch, David Cronenberg, Todd Solondz, Todd Haynes, Robert Altman, John Waters, Gregg Araki, Lars Von Trier, Miranda July. Foreign films, indie, comedies, cult & oddball, B movies, horror, suspense, sci-fi and documentaries, especially anything about the arts.
shows - Orphan Black. Mad Men. True Blood. Hung. Portlandia. American Horror Story. Orange Is The New Black. RuPaul's Drag Race. Food shows. Oddities. Louie. Ugly Americans. Futurama. Workaholics.
- vintage psychedelic & folk rock, sunshine pop & bubblegum
- early funk, R&B and psychedelic soul
- electronic music, vintage (Haack, Perrey, Kingsley, Garson, Scott) to current (drum & bass, dubstep, chillwave, witch house)
- soundtracks- blaxploitation, horror, porn
- female blues & jazz singers
- exotica & lounge
- "dirty" blues
- outsider artists & assorted oddities
For even more detail, see last.fm/user/sgth0wie
food - Enjoy cooking, especially baking. I like steaks or burgers on the grill, southern cooking & soul food, Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Italian, Polish, Middle Eastern, you name it. Adventurous palate & love ethnic grocery stores. The term "foodie" annoys me slightly, but I reckon I'm one of those.
Let's talk about sex, baby.
My partner and I play together sometimes but I'm mainly seeking friends to connect with on my own. I like women, men and couples, especially MF couples.
With women I enjoy just about anything sexually. I'm not the sub type though so a Dom is not really for me.
With guys I'm an aggressive top most of the time, but can bottom for the right man. I like submissive bottoms and versatile tops.
- Guys and girls who like bi guys
- Ages 18–99
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, casual sex
You are looking for a friend, with or without benefits.
You are 420 friendly.
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