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47 M Ferndale, MI

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:52pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a bi man looking for local friends, with or without benefits. I'm in an open LTR of eleven years.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in IT. In my free time I like collecting and listening to music, karaoke, reading, movies, thrift stores, bicycling, cooking, camping, spoiling my pets and quality time with my tivo and vaporizer. Other stuff I collect: tiki memorabilia, vintage advertising, PEZ, Day of the Dead folk art & Halloween decorations.

I have dieted down to 225 from a peak weight somewhere north of 350. I don't have a perfect body and I don't care if you do either.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sex, kissing, massage, listening, making lemon pound cake & cherry clafouti, finding media online, collecting & organizing, mixing tropical cocktails from scratch, singing to my dog and acting a fool.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hillbilly accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books - Eclectic taste. Cut my teeth on Stephen King & Clive Barker. Margaret Atwood, Joan Didion, Kelly Link, David Sedaris, "J.T. Leroy", Fannie Flagg. Southern humor, horror, scifi, slipstream, sociological history, etc.

movies - David Lynch, David Cronenberg, Todd Solondz, Todd Haynes, Robert Altman, John Waters, Gregg Araki, Lars Von Trier, Miranda July. Foreign films, indie, comedies, cult & oddball, B movies, horror, suspense, sci-fi and documentaries, especially anything about the arts.

shows - Orphan Black. Mad Men. True Blood. Hung. Portlandia. American Horror Story. Orange Is The New Black. RuPaul's Drag Race. Food shows. Oddities. Louie. Ugly Americans. Futurama. Workaholics.

music -
- vintage psychedelic & folk rock, sunshine pop & bubblegum
- early funk, R&B and psychedelic soul
- Prince
- electronic music, vintage (Haack, Perrey, Kingsley, Garson, Scott) to current (drum & bass, dubstep, chillwave, witch house)
- soundtracks- blaxploitation, horror, porn
- female blues & jazz singers
- exotica & lounge
- "dirty" blues
- outsider artists & assorted oddities
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food - Enjoy cooking, especially baking. I like steaks or burgers on the grill, southern cooking & soul food, Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Italian, Polish, Middle Eastern, you name it. Adventurous palate & love ethnic grocery stores. The term "foodie" annoys me slightly, but I reckon I'm one of those.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"Things" precludes people, so:
internet access
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Let's talk about sex, baby.
My partner and I play together sometimes but I'm mainly seeking friends to connect with on my own. I like women, men and couples, especially MF couples.

With women I enjoy just about anything sexually. I'm not the sub type though so a Dom is not really for me.

With guys I'm an aggressive top most of the time, but can bottom for the right man. I like submissive bottoms and versatile tops.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Entertaining friends at home or out with friends at karaoke.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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We have some things in common.
You are looking for a friend, with or without benefits.
You are 420 friendly.