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sgthowie

47 M Ferndale, MI

My Details

Last Online
Jan 12
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a bi man looking for local friends, with or without benefits. I'm in an open LTR of eleven years.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in IT. In my free time I like collecting and listening to music, karaoke, reading, movies, thrift stores, bicycling, cooking, camping, spoiling my pets and quality time with my tivo and vaporizer. Other stuff I collect: tiki memorabilia, vintage advertising, PEZ, Day of the Dead folk art & Halloween decorations.

I have dieted down to 225 from a peak weight somewhere north of 350. I don't have a perfect body and I don't care if you do either.
I’m really good at
Sex, kissing, massage, listening, making lemon pound cake & cherry clafouti, finding media online, collecting & organizing, mixing tropical cocktails from scratch, singing to my dog and acting a fool.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books - Eclectic taste. Cut my teeth on Stephen King & Clive Barker. Margaret Atwood, Joan Didion, Kelly Link, David Sedaris, "J.T. Leroy", Fannie Flagg. Southern humor, horror, scifi, slipstream, sociological history, etc.

movies - David Lynch, David Cronenberg, Todd Solondz, Todd Haynes, Robert Altman, John Waters, Gregg Araki, Lars Von Trier, Miranda July. Foreign films, indie, comedies, cult & oddball, B movies, horror, suspense, sci-fi and documentaries, especially anything about the arts.

shows - Orphan Black. Mad Men. True Blood. Hung. Portlandia. American Horror Story. Orange Is The New Black. RuPaul's Drag Race. Food shows. Oddities. Louie. Ugly Americans. Futurama. Workaholics.

music -
- vintage psychedelic & folk rock, sunshine pop & bubblegum
- early funk, R&B and psychedelic soul
- Prince
- electronic music, vintage (Haack, Perrey, Kingsley, Garson, Scott) to current (drum & bass, dubstep, chillwave, witch house)
- soundtracks- blaxploitation, horror, porn
- female blues & jazz singers
- exotica & lounge
- "dirty" blues
- outsider artists & assorted oddities
For even more detail, see last.fm/user/sgth0wie

food - Enjoy cooking, especially baking. I like steaks or burgers on the grill, southern cooking & soul food, Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Italian, Polish, Middle Eastern, you name it. Adventurous palate & love ethnic grocery stores. The term "foodie" annoys me slightly, but I reckon I'm one of those.
The six things I could never do without
"Things" precludes people, so:
sex
food
water
shelter
clothing
internet access
I spend a lot of time thinking about
sex.

Let's talk about sex, baby.
My partner and I play together sometimes but I'm mainly seeking friends to connect with on my own. I like women, men and couples, especially MF couples.

With women I enjoy just about anything sexually. I'm not the sub type though so a Dom is not really for me.

With guys I'm an aggressive top most of the time, but can bottom for the right man. I like submissive bottoms and versatile tops.
On a typical Friday night I am
Entertaining friends at home or out with friends at karaoke.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex
You should message me if
We have some things in common.
You are looking for a friend, with or without benefits.
You are 420 friendly.