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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 24
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5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
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Single man looking for local friends, with or without benefits. Especially seeking other poly oriented folks.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in IT. In my free time I like collecting and listening to music, karaoke, reading, movies, thrift stores, bicycling, cooking, camping, spoiling my pets. Other stuff I collect: tiki kitsch, vintage advertising, PEZ, Day of the Dead folk art & Halloween decorations.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sex, kissing, massage, listening, making lemon pound cake & cherry clafouti, finding media online, collecting & organizing, mixing tropical cocktails from scratch, singing to my dog and acting a fool.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My beard, then my hillbilly twang.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books - Eclectic taste. Cut my teeth on Stephen King & Clive Barker. Margaret Atwood, Joan Didion, Kelly Link, David Sedaris, "J.T. Leroy", Fannie Flagg. Southern humor, horror, scifi, slipstream, sociological history, etc.

movies - David Lynch, David Cronenberg, Todd Solondz, Todd Haynes, Robert Altman, John Waters, Gregg Araki, Lars Von Trier, Miranda July. Foreign films, indie, comedies, cult & oddball, B movies, horror, suspense, sci-fi and documentaries, especially anything about the arts.

shows - @Midnight. Rick And Morty. Scream Queens. Sense8. Orphan Black. Portlandia. American Horror Story. Orange Is The New Black. RuPaul's Drag Race. Louie. Futurama. Workaholics. Broad City.

music -
- vintage psychedelic & folk rock, sunshine pop & bubblegum
- funk, R&B and psychedelic soul
- Prince
- electronic music, vintage (Haack, Perrey, Kingsley, Garson, Scott) to current (drum & bass, dubstep, chillwave, etc)
- soundtracks- blaxploitation, horror, porn
- female blues & jazz singers
- exotica & lounge
- "dirty" blues
- outsider artists & assorted oddities

food - Enjoy cooking & baking. I like steaks or burgers on the grill, southern cooking & soul food, Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican, Italian, Polish, Middle Eastern, you name it. Adventurous palate & love international grocery stores.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"Things" precludes people, so:
internet access
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Let's talk about sex, baby.
I like women, men, transmen and couples. Especially seeking long term connections with other poly folks.

With women I enjoy just about anything sexually. I am Dom in any kink play but that's definitely optional.

Top/vers with men. I like sub bottoms, vers tops and occasionally even a total top.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Entertaining friends at home or out with friends at karaoke.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You are poly.
We have some things in common.
You are looking for a friend, with or without benefits.
You are 420 friendly.