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47 Santa Clara, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34-48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I was born and adopted in Frankfurt Germany, grew up in Wilton Connecticut, attended college in Upstate New York, and moved to the Bay Area from New York City fifteen years ago. I’m independent, active, adventurous, like to get out, have fun, laugh, relax, explore new places, have new experiences. I have a relaxed easygoing manner, an introvert/extrovert mix and enjoy personal downtime occasionally. I'm a 4.0 level tennis player, practice martial arts (Kenpo green belt) and prefer outdoor exercise. Experiencing memorable scenic drives, spectacular views and unique, fun travels with good company makes it even better. I like dogs, grew up with two Rottweilers (my favorite breed). I'm intelligent, frank, a sarcastic wit at times, stubborn, persistent, realistic, reserved at times but, warm up well with the right company. Appreciate good design; working hard and smart. Turn offs: Wasted time and energy, people who don’t value integrity or exhibit toxic behavior. All experiences contribute to growth in some way as life is a cumulative path.

What I'm looking for:
I am seeking my 'True Companion.' Mutual chemistry and physical attraction matters; it's essential and simply exists or not, once you both meet. Similar but, not necessarily identical background compatibility, e.g. – education, shared values and experiences, some overlapping interests. I don't seek perfection, it is rarely found and may not exist. Let’s meet and see what happens.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working and taking courses.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tennis, research, writing, an eye for details and good design, driving, parallel parking, remembering songs, pinball, darts.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, most likely.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Music:
Rock, Alternative Rock, New Wave, Jazz, Classical, some Country, Blues, classic R&B/Soul, solo piano or cello, acoustic and flamenco guitar; The Who, U2, R.E.M., The Doors, The Beatles, The Eagles, Pink Floyd, The Rolling Stones, Travis, Coldplay, Keane, Snow Patrol, Nirvana, Foo Fighters, The Smiths, The Police, The Clash, Billy Joel, Chris Isaak, Radiohead, Death Cab For Cutie, Silversun Pickups, Neon Trees, Van Halen, Billy Idol, Hoodoo Gurus, Queen, Depeche Mode, Johnny Cash, Talking Heads, Peter Gabriel, Dwight Yoakam, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Joshua Redman, James Carter, Robert Glasper, Lang Lang, Ottmar Liebert, Yo-Yo Ma.

Favorite Movies:
High Fidelity, Pulp Fiction, Swingers, Braveheart, Shawshank Redemption, Silence of the Lambs, No Country For Old Men, Saving Private Ryan, Goodfellas, Casino Royale, Seabiscuit, Glengarry Glen Ross, American Psycho, Fight Club, A River Runs Through It, Heat, Three Colors Trilogy, 2046, City of God, Annie Hall, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, The Hangover, Good Morning Vietnam, Fargo, As Good As It Gets, Office Space, Gladiator, Dirty Harry, Unforgiven, Straight Outta Compton, The Wrestler, Red Cliff, The English Patient, Atonement.

Favorite TV shows:
CSI (Vegas), Charlie Rose, Frontline, 60 Minutes, 24, Entourage, 30 Rock, Sopranos, Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Family Guy, The Simpsons, The Office, Arrested Development, Shark, History Channel, Discovery Channel, National Geographic Channel, Biography Channel, Travel Channel, Top Gear, Mad Men, VH1 Classic & Behind The Music, Inside The Actors Studio, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart, Last Week Tonight with John Oliver, TED Talks; Misc: NPR Radio; Quora.

Famous people I’ve met:
Andre Agassi, Kai Nishikori, Paul Westerberg, The Hoodoo Gurus, Ottmar Liebert, Milla Jovovich, Peter Garrett, Boyd Tinsley, Sinead O’Connor, Cyndi Lauper, Steve Young, Ronnie Lott, Zbigniew Brzezinski, James R. Schlesinger, Bob Sharp.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, tennis, hiking, travel, a good read, good food and drink.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next vacation. My career. What I'm going to read next and where I'll find it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching up on Tivo content, running errands, listening to music, watching a movie, reading, cooking dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Then it wouldn't be private.
You should message me if
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you think we may have great chemistry, some overlapping interests, shared values, experiences and sense of humor.